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I know I'm loved because two of my friends went totally out of their way (over two days) to see to it that I made it to a special doctor appointment. Neither one of them were expected to help, but they both are deeply appreciated for making sacrifices and standing by me.
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i know i am loved because we tell each other, my love, my friends and my family.
i tell my loved ones that i love them constantly. |
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I know I am loved because-he thinks i'm perfect for him
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I know I am loved. No because. I just am.
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I'm going through one of the most difficult times of my entire life. I just finished three years of law school, during which time I also completed a second graduate degree. While I did that, fifteen people in my life died, ten of whom were close relatives, friends, or ex-lovers that I was still close to. I didn't take time to grieve because I couldn't stop school to do it. Now I'm done, and the weight of all that grief is crashing down. At the same time, I was in two romantic partnerships, a relatively new one, and a long term one of seventeen years. (We're poly and yes they knew about each other.) The new one ended unexpectedly on Saturday and the other is ending slowly, but still headed there because he's been cheating. (Cheating in poly happens when agreements are broken and/or lies are told about a new relationship.) I'm also studying for the state bar exam, which is next week.
In the midst of all this grief, stress, loss, and pain, I have been held up in love by my friends, who have given me places to stay, keys to their houses, meals, hugs, and shoulders to cry on. I belong to a community of femmes who have bent over backwards to be there and give me love and support. There are a few lovely people here on the planet who have texted me or called me regularly to check in and see how I'm doing. My parents have been amazing, kind, and present. This is one of the darkest times of my life. I keep thinking it can't possibly get any worse, and then it does. The silver lining is knowing how deeply loved I am, and my gratitude for that love. I knew I was loved before this, but it's when real trouble comes that I see how much. |
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I could make lists about how he shows me he loves me......I do them mentally
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...cuz He puts up with me with nary a complaint.
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I know what love is.
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because she simply listens, sometimes thats the most loving thing a person can do.
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Because my nieces tell me and mean it.
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He says it, He shows it and I feel it.
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Because she wants to see me again.
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I know I'm loved because we've got eachother's backs and we don't face hardships alone...I can rest knowing they are there for me, and I for them.
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because hy doesn't hesitate to show me
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because hy sends me into that space i need to be in...
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He hasn't skipped town yet.
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I know I am loved because I've had amazing emotional support, respect, and compassion from several of my dearest friends while I have been tasked with taking care of a different friend's business in her time of crisis.
I know I am loved because they backed me up and would stand beside me through anything.
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I know I am loved when his bratty Chihuahua, who used to hate me, now loves me and we cuddle for hours. He's not sweet with anyone else besides his daddy.
When you win the affection of a bratty Chihuahua, you are loved indeed.
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