What are your three non-negotiables (in a relationship)?

deeds · 01-15-2017, 09:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Amulette

Chemistry creating that feeling of *please* come closer. (The healthy kind)
Devotion, passionately, heart to heart. We *love* our love.
Very loving and expressive, prone to impromptu acts of passion.
I adore purity of heart, and kind, honest expression.
Open-mindedness, free thinker, global spirit, adventurous.
Embodies finesse, a grace of spirit.

Someone who bothers to live an interesting life, unapologetically interesting.Then comes home and shares.

Ahh.You are sweet..
I would like to apply for this position

Chad · 01-15-2017, 11:41 PM

Mine are always the same,
No cheating
No lies
No drugs

I actually have more but it said three.

nanners · 08-14-2017, 07:22 PM

1. Integrity
2. Honesty
3. Good communication skills
4. Self supporting and employed
5. Compassion for others
6. Must love cats!

OK, I went above 3 too...but they are very important to me and if I ever date anyone again these things must be true of that person.

BullDog · 08-14-2017, 07:37 PM

Kind

Positive outlook on life (negative people are a soul sucker)

Smart/Good sense of humor (hey you can't be funny if you're not smart, lol)

2qt · 08-14-2017, 07:37 PM

Honesty....
Self independence....
Wit & adventurous....
No alcoholics....
Loves life & wants to be part of it, not out of it...

Couldn't stick to just 3 either lol I tried...

Katniss · 08-14-2017, 10:02 PM

As strange or even counter-intuitive as this may sound, at this point I've ditched the "list of requirements." My own tastes and preferences can be so diverse it seems a shame to saddle someone else with a list of do and do nots. IDK, more opting in, less opting out? This is coming from someone who if I had won the lottery this weekend would have funded both the first chair cello at the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra annnnnd my own NASCAR team.

Katniss~~

homoe · 08-14-2017, 10:10 PM

1.Smoking
2.Smoking
3.Smoking

Did I mention smoking?

*Anya* · 08-14-2017, 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by homoe

1.Smoking
2.Smoking
3.Smoking

Did I mention smoking?

Um, for or against?

Gemme · 05-02-2018, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by nanners

1. Integrity
2. Honesty
3. Good communication skills

Yes!
Yes!
Yes!

cathexis · 05-03-2018, 01:42 AM

HONESTY
Meets obligations made
Experimentalism

01-15-2017, 11:41 PM	#2
Chad Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Loved Caregiver Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 6,164 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,746 Thanked 20,313 Times in 5,677 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Non-negotiables Mine are always the same, No cheating No lies No drugs I actually have more but it said three.

08-14-2017, 07:37 PM	#4
BullDog Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Dominant Stone Butch Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: She Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In A Healing Place Posts: 5,371 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,160 Thanked 22,640 Times in 4,463 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Kind Positive outlook on life (negative people are a soul sucker) Smart/Good sense of humor (hey you can't be funny if you're not smart, lol) __________________ Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. - Rainer Maria Rilke

08-14-2017, 10:02 PM	#6
Katniss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dame, doll, twist, dish Preferred Pronoun?: Ladylike ones Relationship Status: ***** Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: We drink sweet tea here Posts: 2,903 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,654 Thanked 10,372 Times in 2,089 Posts Rep Power**: 21474852	Miss Guided... As strange or even counter-intuitive as this may sound, at this point I've ditched the "list of requirements." My own tastes and preferences can be so diverse it seems a shame to saddle someone else with a list of do and do nots. IDK, more opting in, less opting out? This is coming from someone who if I had won the lottery this weekend would have funded both the first chair cello at the Atlanta Symphony Orchestra annnnnd my own NASCAR team. Katniss~~

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08-14-2017, 07:22 PM	#3
nanners Member How Do You Identify?: her femme Preferred Pronoun?: girl Relationship Status: Blissfully married to the love of my life. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: MS Posts: 1,159 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,450 Thanked 4,899 Times in 1,096 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	1. Integrity 2. Honesty 3. Good communication skills 4. Self supporting and employed 5. Compassion for others 6. Must love cats! OK, I went above 3 too...but they are very important to me and if I ever date anyone again these things must be true of that person.

08-14-2017, 07:37 PM	#5
2qt Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her.. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Mothership Posts: 873 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 861 Thanked 1,966 Times in 582 Posts Rep Power: 15312203	Honesty.... Self independence.... Wit & adventurous.... No alcoholics.... Loves life & wants to be part of it, not out of it... Couldn't stick to just 3 either lol I tried...

08-14-2017, 10:10 PM	#7
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05-03-2018, 01:42 AM	#10
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