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![]() A few of mine: *Running my fingers down my girls gorgeous, long strawberry blonde hair *Staring at the fireplace *Reading *Adult coloring books (I learned a new phrase in one of them, "Twat Waffle") *Rubbing dogs bellies *Observing the Minks and the Blue Heron in the ravine behind the house
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Some things I do might not be too ordinary, but I find lots of pleasure in doing them, because there's an heart connection behind most all of them (and, I listed them out of order):
* filing my natural nails and buffing them to a gloss. ** sharpening kitchen knife blades (my dad taught all us kids years ago, but it's a worthwhile skill). *** cooking in the kitchen. **** tangled up with my Sweetheart and listening to his heartbeat and observing his chest rise and fall, as he breathes. ***** bicycle riding (I can hardly wait to be well enough, so I can ride my bicycle again). |
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Silence.
I love silence it is very therapeutic to me. |
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If I'm angry I clean the house from top to bottom all at once...nothings gets "the mad out" quite like cleaning.
If I'm troubled or stressed...quiet and sometimes the escape of a nap. |
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This is true. I find I must make time sometimes in the chaotic world for simple silence. Sometimes we don't realize how much we need it until we make time for it.
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Walking whether it's taking the dog out or at the mall, walking helps my brain rest.
Journaling, I have kept a journal for a long time, writing things out helps too. Watching a lot of movies. |
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Fresh oatmeal cookies
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Classical music or just some plain ol silence. A lot of the times during the 5 hour drive to Seattle from Eugene, it would be just the road noise and wind to keep me company.
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I find the sounds and smells of the ocean therapeutic. Something about it's vastness makes my troubles less overwhelming.
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I love all of these too. Sometimes it's the most overlooked things that I realize are really keeping me in balance underneath it all.
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Anyway to stay true to the thread, I also find fire, especially on water, very peace inducing. Barring burial at sea, which I doubt I will get, I would love it if someone would just stick me in a canoe, tow it out to sea a bit and set it on fire...after I'm dead of course.
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When I'm at home I find the following super therapeutic:
audiobooks or my fave music playing on the Bose something yummy simmering on the stove cleaning or purging items I don't need Facetime face masks or spa treatments fuzzy socks
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yelling at the TV!
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the sound and smell of the ocean.............
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