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Old 01-19-2017, 11:34 AM   #1
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What are those simple, therapeutic things that bring a sigh of relief and a feeling of gratification & inner peace?
It depends on what kind of peace I'm looking for but these are some of my 'stress busters' in general:
  • crafting
  • reading
  • listening to music
  • watching Psych....I never get bored with this show and wish it hadn't been cancelled
  • the feeling of my super soft fleece bend throws on my skin
  • the warmth from being the small spoon and their breath on the back of my neck
  • snuggling with a purring kitty or a snoring pup
  • watching snow fall
  • watching fire dance
  • sitting in a dark theatre, right before the movie begins
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I love silence it is very therapeutic to me.
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If I'm angry I clean the house from top to bottom all at once...nothings gets "the mad out" quite like cleaning.

If I'm troubled or stressed...quiet and sometimes the escape of a nap.
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This is true. I find I must make time sometimes in the chaotic world for simple silence. Sometimes we don't realize how much we need it until we make time for it.

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I love silence it is very therapeutic to me.
Also, in a boat on the water or on the beach near the water.

Deep in a forest hiking and exploring the landscape and the indigenous flora and fauna.
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Walking whether it's taking the dog out or at the mall, walking helps my brain rest.

Journaling, I have kept a journal for a long time, writing things out helps too.

Watching a lot of movies.
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Doing Reiki on either myself or another person.

Hanging out in the Garagemahal doing picayune things that matter possibly only to myself.

Teaching Sadie a new trick, and watching her eyes light up with excitement as she gets it.

A good orgasm.

Walking on the beach or along the banks of a slow moving river.

Helping others.

Did I mention a good cup of coffee?
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Classical music or just some plain ol silence. A lot of the times during the 5 hour drive to Seattle from Eugene, it would be just the road noise and wind to keep me company.
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I find the sounds and smells of the ocean therapeutic. Something about it's vastness makes my troubles less overwhelming.
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Working on crafts. Laying on Him and listening to His heartbeat. Like CCB, watching TV. Love People's Court and Judge Milian.
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I love all of these too. Sometimes it's the most overlooked things that I realize are really keeping me in balance underneath it all.


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It depends on what kind of peace I'm looking for but these are some of my 'stress busters' in general:
  • crafting
  • reading
  • listening to music
  • watching Psych....I never get bored with this show and wish it hadn't been cancelled
  • the feeling of my super soft fleece bend throws on my skin
  • the warmth from being the small spoon and their breath on the back of my neck
  • snuggling with a purring kitty or a snoring pup
  • watching snow fall
  • watching fire dance
  • sitting in a dark theatre, right before the movie begins
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[*]watching fire dance

You must love WaterFire. I was dating someone at Brown around 1999 and she was one of the volunteers feeding the braziers so I had a front row seat. It was right around the time WaterFire was beginning to grow and I really enjoyed it. A few years later I was amazed at how big it had gotten. I took my wife one year, maybe 2007, and it was humongous. I think it was more fun when it was smaller.

Anyway to stay true to the thread, I also find fire, especially on water, very peace inducing. Barring burial at sea, which I doubt I will get, I would love it if someone would just stick me in a canoe, tow it out to sea a bit and set it on fire...after I'm dead of course.
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audiobooks or my fave music playing on the Bose
something yummy simmering on the stove
cleaning or purging items I don't need
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face masks or spa treatments
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Good old-fashioned homemade food. Cooking and baking as much as I can from scratch. Feeding the ones I love their favorites and seeing them light up over something so simple. Food could be a love language by itself.
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