What did you learn today?

Gemme · 05-09-2017, 04:55 PM

Some people are going to be ungrateful turds no matter what you do to help them.

NavyButch · 05-21-2017, 10:48 AM

That I will never tolerate disrespect or rudeness. You can not change others- but you can take yourself out of the equation- and the flip side to the coin is there truly are good people in the world too- so you just find them.

girl_dee · 05-22-2017, 02:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

Some people are going to be ungrateful turds no matter what you do to help them.

RIGHT!? i have to make sure i don't become one!

Gayandgray · 05-22-2017, 10:01 AM

That sometimes friends, people you know as acquaintances, etc. can lead a double life. You may have known them for years and they have always presented themselves one way, but then you find out they are a totally different person.

indigo · 06-14-2017, 06:42 PM

The basics of Typo3. And that i need to learn to stay focused on my goals...ok, I already knew that one.

Kätzchen · 09-05-2017, 09:48 AM

Not today, but over my lifetime, two very important people in my life gave me the best advice, which both items of advice can be very useful, if applied carefully with love and care.

1) Be careful what you wish for, it might just come true.

2) Be careful in who you reveal your 'hand' to..... sometimes it's best not to show your full hand or lay all your 'cards' on the table.

Sidebar: Over time, I've learned that it's wise to be safe. To LQQK out for yourself, first and always. It's not selfish to do that because it's an act of love you give to yourself unselfishly.

Deborah* · 10-12-2017, 09:50 PM

That people can manipulate what you say for their own ends.
But such is life. It's important to feel empathy for those who act like this.

Deborah

Deborah* · 10-12-2017, 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by indigo

The basics of Typo3. And that i need to learn to stay focused on my goals...ok, I already knew that one.

Always stay focused on your goals. Or else you won't get there..

Deborah

cathexis · 10-12-2017, 10:39 PM

You're only as vulnerable as your deepest secret. Not to hide secrets that can harm me lest they be used as weapons or to manipulate.

Complete honesty gives no ammo to adversaries.

To always be aware of my surroundings (still working on this one).

JDeere · 10-13-2017, 01:42 AM

The grass truly isn't greener on the other side!

05-09-2017, 04:55 PM	#1
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,860 Times in 25,664 Posts Rep Power: 21474888	Some people are going to be ungrateful turds no matter what you do to help them. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

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Gayandgray Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme-ish, tomboy lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Together a really long time Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: In my mind? On a tropical island Posts: 4,862 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,584 Thanked 12,874 Times in 3,081 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	That sometimes friends, people you know as acquaintances, etc. can lead a double life. You may have known them for years and they have always presented themselves one way, but then you find out they are a totally different person. __________________

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Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Attached <3 Join Date: May 2010 Location: Near three rivers Posts: 16,561 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,208 Thanked 33,782 Times in 10,851 Posts Rep Power: 21474869	2 for 2 Not today, but over my lifetime, two very important people in my life gave me the best advice, which both items of advice can be very useful, if applied carefully with love and care. 1) Be careful what you wish for, it might just come true. 2) Be careful in who you reveal your 'hand' to..... sometimes it's best not to show your full hand or lay all your 'cards' on the table. Sidebar: Over time, I've learned that it's wise to be safe. To LQQK out for yourself, first and always. It's not selfish to do that because it's an act of love you give to yourself unselfishly. __________________ 🌷🌷🌷🌷 🌷🌷🌷🌷

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05-21-2017, 10:48 AM	#2
NavyButch Timed Out - Identity Issues How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Sir, Captain Join Date: Apr 2017 Location: Ashore Posts: 232 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 655 Thanked 742 Times in 195 Posts Rep Power: 0	That I will never tolerate disrespect or rudeness. You can not change others- but you can take yourself out of the equation- and the flip side to the coin is there truly are good people in the world too- so you just find them.

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indigo Junior Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme-like Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2017 Location: Germany Posts: 68 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41 Thanked 184 Times in 58 Posts Rep Power: 859005	The basics of Typo3. And that i need to learn to stay focused on my goals...ok, I already knew that one.

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Deborah* Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: single and not looking Join Date: Sep 2017 Location: Texas Posts: 354 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 304 Thanked 420 Times in 180 Posts Rep Power: 2658956	That people can manipulate what you say for their own ends. But such is life. It's important to feel empathy for those who act like this. Deborah

10-12-2017, 10:39 PM	#9
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,705 Times in 1,604 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	You're only as vulnerable as your deepest secret. Not to hide secrets that can harm me lest they be used as weapons or to manipulate. Complete honesty gives no ammo to adversaries. To always be aware of my surroundings (still working on this one).