Thank you to my Ex for...

homoe · 08-19-2017, 10:02 AM

I'm going to love reading this thread! I think focusing on the good things is way more productive and benefical than on the negative!

I'll be back later to post even though I have only the one ex ...

knight · 08-19-2017, 11:57 AM

What a great idea for a thread... I will be back with posts....

cheers!

nycfem · 08-19-2017, 02:01 PM

Going forward:

If you are going to post something about someone who is on this site and is an ex, please confer with them privately to secure permission before posting. Some people do not want to come upon posts that their ex has posted about them. We do get reports about that.

Thanks,
Jennifer (Moderator)

2qt · 08-20-2017, 08:26 AM

Thank you to my ex for showing me love holds no boundaries or distance, it just is what it is & it was what it was with no regrets......

Thank you to my ex for reminding me of my strengths & my weaknesses & letting me be just me without the need to shelter myself or expect higher of myself then I was capable of doing...

Thank you to my ex for showing me that I am enough, was always enough, will always be enough & to never settle for less then I am worth....

Thank you to my ex for the memories for they have helped me grow a better understanding of me....

Blade · 08-22-2017, 08:43 AM

Cool positive thread

Oklahomagal · 08-22-2017, 10:09 AM

I like this idea

Vincent · 10-18-2020, 01:33 PM

I did not know this thread existed
after constant dreaming about my ex
mainly having PTSD and this being sugested by my therapist

I wrote her a thank you letter
I wanted to tie up loose ends,she was the love of my life
I met her 10 mths coming out of a toxic 14yr R'ship
I was only with her for one yr,so for me length means nothing
I thanked her for teaching me to read
for never yelling or belittling me
for showing me love is gentle and funny and an adventure
I thanked her for pursuing me,even though I took ages to get it
I told her how happy I was,that she had suceded in her career,I had seen a interview she did,and I was proud she had contributed to good policy for ppl with disabilities in Aust
I thanked her,that when I think of her,I smile and can still hear her laugh
I thanked her for the feeling of knowing real love,a feeling I only felt from my father.

I sent this by snail mail,through registered post,so she had to sign for it
I did not send any contact information for me.
But I did add a link to my youtube and soundcloud,and for a lil while someone had me singing on repeat in Sydney where she lives.

And I feel free now,dreams stopped,and I can stop looking for her now,and be content on my own,coz

If the sun refused to shine
I will still be loving you

thankyou-Led Zeplin
I can write this here,she will never see it

08-19-2017, 11:57 AM	#2
knight Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: Canada Posts: 281 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 618 Thanked 669 Times in 212 Posts Rep Power: 18593207	Thank you What a great idea for a thread... I will be back with posts.... cheers!

08-19-2017, 02:01 PM	#3
nycfem Moderator How Do You Identify?: femme sub Preferred Pronoun?: Baby Grrl Relationship Status: Attached Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NYC Posts: 6,795 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 52,990 Thanked 21,401 Times in 5,101 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Going forward: If you are going to post something about someone who is on this site and is an ex, please confer with them privately to secure permission before posting. Some people do not want to come upon posts that their ex has posted about them. We do get reports about that. Thanks, Jennifer (Moderator) __________________ *** How do I... ?** Check out the Members Helping Members thread: http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...embers+Helping

08-22-2017, 08:43 AM	#5
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,412 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Cool positive thread __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

10-18-2020, 01:33 PM	#7
Vincent Member How Do You Identify?: Transman Preferred Pronoun?: Him,he Relationship Status: just me Join Date: Apr 2015 Location: Tweed Heads Australia Posts: 427 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,207 Thanked 936 Times in 335 Posts Rep Power: 12178444	Thank you Jen I did not know this thread existed after constant dreaming about my ex mainly having PTSD and this being sugested by my therapist I wrote her a thank you letter I wanted to tie up loose ends,she was the love of my life I met her 10 mths coming out of a toxic 14yr R'ship I was only with her for one yr,so for me length means nothing I thanked her for teaching me to read for never yelling or belittling me for showing me love is gentle and funny and an adventure I thanked her for pursuing me,even though I took ages to get it I told her how happy I was,that she had suceded in her career,I had seen a interview she did,and I was proud she had contributed to good policy for ppl with disabilities in Aust I thanked her,that when I think of her,I smile and can still hear her laugh I thanked her for the feeling of knowing real love,a feeling I only felt from my father. I sent this by snail mail,through registered post,so she had to sign for it I did not send any contact information for me. But I did add a link to my youtube and soundcloud,and for a lil while someone had me singing on repeat in Sydney where she lives. And I feel free now,dreams stopped,and I can stop looking for her now,and be content on my own,coz If the sun refused to shine I will still be loving you thankyou-Led Zeplin I can write this here,she will never see it __________________ https://soundcloud.com/conormont https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kb1y2xyfYSw If Not Me-Who If Not Now-When If Not Here-Where

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08-19-2017, 10:02 AM	#1
homoe Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: ..... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle Posts: 38,565 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20,811 Thanked 33,549 Times in 14,914 Posts Rep Power: 21474890	I'm going to love reading this thread! I think focusing on the good things is way more productive and benefical than on the negative! I'll be back later to post even though I have only the one ex ...

08-20-2017, 08:26 AM	#4
2qt Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her.. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Mothership Posts: 873 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 861 Thanked 1,966 Times in 582 Posts Rep Power: 15312204	Thank you to my ex for showing me love holds no boundaries or distance, it just is what it is & it was what it was with no regrets...... Thank you to my ex for reminding me of my strengths & my weaknesses & letting me be just me without the need to shelter myself or expect higher of myself then I was capable of doing... Thank you to my ex for showing me that I am enough, was always enough, will always be enough & to never settle for less then I am worth.... Thank you to my ex for the memories for they have helped me grow a better understanding of me....

08-22-2017, 10:09 AM	#6
Oklahomagal Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2015 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 33 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1 Thanked 80 Times in 25 Posts Rep Power: 603799	I like this idea