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Old 05-28-2010, 08:41 PM   #1
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Have to add this now, My given name is Rose.
I embrace My name, I love it, and does it make me less or more than who I am? Fuck No. It's Me, My name, I love it, My Mum gave it to Me and I wouldn't change a damn thing about it.
Does it change who I am? Nope!
I am who I am, regardless of how I ID, what I wear, what I do in My day to day life ...
If someone thinks less of Me because I enjoy sewing or making jewelry, then it's on their own head, I do what I do because I like it, not because someone who doesn't know Me thinks it's wrong ...
i love it when Massi sends a text and signs it "Daddy Rose", makes my heart melt.

When i told someone Hys name, they responded, "oh, that's a really butch name," and laughed. i didn't understand her reaction because she is very outspoken about people not accepting her as the butch woman she is (and changed her name legally because it was too feminine).

i LOVE that Hy makes jewelry (ok, that could be because *i* am benefiting from that skill) and thank goodness Hy can sew, because i so cannot (and come to think of it, i'll be benefiting from that skill, too!).

And, Hy ROCKS the pink hair, that's all i'm sayin.

Hys proud girl, rhonda
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Old 05-28-2010, 08:52 PM   #2
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Hi I am a femme

I have never, ever, not once, in my life watched a chick flick willingly.
I do not watch lifetime or anything vagina vision like.
I don't watch romantic comedy's, love stories, etc

I am a sci fi, fantasy, action adventure kinda gal

I get ready to go out in 30 minutes

I don't go try on my whole closet to go out
I don't change my mind after I am dressed

I am not afraid of bugs, snakes or mice or rats (most of the time)

My decorating tastes run to simple, dark, basics , what would be considered masculine

I can change a tire


I find this thread very refreshing. I love it when people say this is who I am!!!!!!!!! diversity rocks!!!!!
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Old 05-28-2010, 09:20 PM   #4
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K i'll give it a try...

Being someone else was brave enough to go with real first names,i'll pitch mine out there.It's Mary Michael,most of my frinds and family call me by it tho some will call me Mike hear and there,I get some strange looks in gay bars when someone dose this..it use to bother for some reason,but now what the heck.

I hate spiders big time,if I see them first im ok,if not I sqeel like a girlie girl.

I love to cook and have ovr 60 cook books and colecting as many as I can.

can barely sew a button on but I do the best I can.

I hate to get my hands all messed up u can bet I keep them as nice as possable with hand cream.

I dont do work on cars/trucks even tho I know how.

I colect music boxes,wood carveings,figureines of wolves and eagles as well as have a hugh plate colection hanging at home from all over the world.

Ok now I have at least dented my butch card,but this is me.
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K i'll give it a try...



Ok now I have at least dented my butch card,but this is me.
The point of this is YOU DON"T lose your butch card. Who you are can not be taken away from you. Same goes for femmes and everyone else.
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oh yeah i forgot...i cry everytime i see hooch die on Turner and Hooch...

actually i get misty eyed at all sad movies

tears streamed at "Reign Over Me"

my son loves to tell the story of me crying at the end of one of his pokemon movies....he was 4 dammit i was still emotional!


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oh yeah i forgot...i cry everytime i see hooch die on Turner and Hooch...

Oh, God, me too!!! I can't hardly watch it!
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Amiyesiam..Thank u so much for this statement,for years its been a lot hard to mesh all of me into who I now am,the journey over the years has been full of pot holes and mistakes as I have gone from a hard core gruff baby butch to a lot more mello person over the years,some things were done cause I thought thats what butches did or was expected from femmes,now im am just plane old me how ever that is.
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Hi, my name is Corkey and I hate spiders and mice and will climb up my wife to get away from them.
I love to garden and cook, grilling is life (don't judge me)
I am allergic to bees and anything that flies and stings, I will hurt you to get away from them.
I cry when any animal, mostly mammalian is hurt and have to turn away when watching other animals eat each other.
I am a softie when it comes to animals, but will cause a kid to cry if they act up and cause an animal harm.
I can change my oil, fix a flat and diagnose an engine problem. The AF wanted me to be an aircraft mechanic, but I chose to be a feminist and become one of the few (at the time) who were among the first flight to carry and use arms, in combat.
I love books and can do higher math only if interested, and yes I have to be interested to do so.
I cannot paint a flower, but the broad side of the barn looks lovely.
I love to work with my hands, but I cannot sew to save my life, yet can tie a bowline knot, go figure.
Oh and my wife burps louder than me. Hee hee!
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i usually change 3 or 4 times b4 heading out..even just to hang out

i will model each outfit...checking to make sure it doesnt make my butt look too big

i love getting flowers

i detest sports.....unless there is money involved

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Never really thought of those channels that way ......vaginavision.....this should be interesting next time I wonder what subject 'touched by an angel' tackles....or 'golden girls'

If I had a quarter for every time I put up with stares and "butcher-than-thou" gripes, I'd be a fuckin' millionaire...

My high school girlfriend tried teaching me cross-stitch, and crochet...I would literally doze off....but then, she returned the favor by staring off in space when I tried teaching her Chess.....
I don't "cop" to stereotypes, if I like something, I'll do it, try it out, or stick with it...I very rarely do something, or wear something cuz it's "Expected" of me...
Don't get me wrong, I don't wear pastels, flowers or summer dresses -cringe-....But, I don't because that's not comfortable, in the slightest bit for me...Not because I'm stone butch and somewhere in b-f Canon it's etched in "Stone"{no pun} "Thou shalt always wear boxer-briefs, and pleated trousers!!"

I read in an article..there was a Drag King contest, one boi was watching a buncha giggling girls, one of 'em signed up, hy groaned saying "there goes the neighborhood", the girl got decked out, head to toes, looked like a Chicano drag king, pose and all, her friends squealed and she giggled, the boi shook hys head, and when she took to the Stage she actually won, and strutted off...When she got to the gathered crowd of friends, she hopped around squawking, very proud, the boi shook his head, clicking hys tongue & adjusting hys soft pack apparently, the author said "Eventually, hy'll understand"...

♦ I'm almost always entertained by bubbles...If I see one, I'll try to pop it after enjoying the visual...

♦ I lurv Butterflies {and some Moths}, in Old San Juan city there's a store/restaurant called "The Butterfly People", I would go there a lot, sometimes alone, sometimes with company..Most of their walls are covered with a wide variety of Butterflies...

♦ I also luv Angelic Art

♦ Most of my snail mail Will have stickers that reflect the Occasion or the Mood...Sometimes both...And my closest friends know better than to carelessly rip the envelope open...their floor will be covered with confetti of different designs...

♦ I'll spend most of my weekend mornings watching old favorite kiddie cartoons in my PJ's with cereal..{Flintstones, jetsons, Pink Panther, Garfield, Rocko's Modern Life, etc..} Unless I hafta run errands.

♦ While my style of clothing is a small reflection of who I am and how I portray myself, it's not the be-all-end-all...
I'll happily wear fleece pj bottoms with cupcakes -shrug-...

♦ I've had very long hair in the past....I only cut it cuz it's much easier to deal with, and comfortable...Sometimes...~glares @ bangs~

♦ I did try my damnedest not to cry during Hachiko A dog Story.....I did sniffle during Philadelphia....and I was a quiet mess during Schindler's List....


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Old 05-28-2010, 09:51 PM   #13
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Hello! I am femme and...

I like to sit with my legs wide open
I am most comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt
I rarely wear make up
my nails are short and natural
I enjoy being the fucker (cock and all)
I haven't worn a dress in years
I know how to check my oil (but not change it)!
I prefer horror/gore over chick flicks
I HATE decorating things (apartment, bedroom, whatever)
I can get ready in half an hour
my hair is 90% of the time up in a pigtail
I say fuck a whole lot
I prefer wearing my "kicks" from KMART than I do my heels
I will kick someone in the face for fucking with my family/friends

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