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		#102 | 
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			That buying cheap razors will rip your skin off every time!  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			that life is short...but, I already know that... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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		#104 | 
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			Some people are going to be ungrateful turds no matter what you do to help them.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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		#105 | 
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			 Timed Out - Identity Issues 
			
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			That I will never tolerate disrespect or rudeness. You can not change others- but you can take yourself out of the equation- and the flip side to the coin is there truly are good people in the world too- so you just find them.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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		#107 | 
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			That sometimes friends, people you know as acquaintances, etc. can lead a double life. You may have known them for years and they have always presented themselves one way, but then you find out they are a totally different person.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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		#108 | 
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			The basics of Typo3. And that i need to learn to stay focused on my goals...ok, I already knew that one.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Not today,  but over my lifetime, two very important people in my life gave me the best advice, which both items of advice can be very useful, if applied carefully with love and care. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			1) Be careful what you wish for, it might just come true. 2) Be careful in who you reveal your 'hand' to..... sometimes it's best not to show your full hand or lay all your 'cards' on the table. Sidebar: Over time, I've learned that it's wise to be safe. To LQQK out for yourself, first and always. It's not selfish to do that because it's an act of love you give to yourself unselfishly.  
		
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			That people can manipulate what you say for their own ends.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	But such is life. It's important to feel empathy for those who act like this. Deborah  | 
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		#112 | 
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			You're only as vulnerable as your deepest secret.  Not to hide secrets  that can harm me lest they be used as weapons or to manipulate.    
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Complete honesty gives no ammo to adversaries. To always be aware of my surroundings (still working on this one).  | 
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			The grass truly isn't greener on the other side!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			That being down in the dumps, hormonal, sad, etc is draining me!!!!! LOL! I need to pick myself up by my boot straps or whatever the saying is and carry on. So onward I go to venture out in the pouring rain to go grocery shopping. I HATE grocery shopping but I guess we gotta eat..... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			that every little thing is going to be okay
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Not everyone is your friend.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			That just when you think you have it bad, you realize that there is someone else that has it way worse than you.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			That no matter how good you may be in written words. Spoken words can be harder to express. Without putting your foot in your mouth. I guess somethings are better left unsaid. 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			That everything Will! be OK!!..okay?
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			don't cut the grass by the clothes line
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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