Breaking The Stereotype!

Gayla · 05-30-2010, 07:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by UofMfan

MODERATION:

Are you moderating this thread?

Andrew has apologized, can we go back to the spirit of the thread?

Thank you.

Nope. I'm not moderating.

The whole point of the thread was to break the stereotypes without justification and qualification. I'm trying to understand why it's so hard for people to just say X without adding Y. I know why it's hard for me. I would like to know why it's hard for other people.

UofMfan · 05-30-2010, 07:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gayla

Nope. I'm not moderating.

The whole point of the thread was to break the stereotypes without justification and qualification. I'm trying to understand why it's so hard for people to just say X without adding Y. I know why it's hard for me. I would like to know why it's hard for other people.

MODERATION:

Yes I know, you pointed that to me when I posted earlier.

What you just did had nothing to do with how you want to MANAGE your thread. That is very evident, so please don't even go there.

If you want to discuss my moderation I will be more than willing to do so via PM.

Thank you.

The_Lady_Snow · 05-30-2010, 07:36 PM

I break a stereotype everyday I wake up..

I am a loud, opinionated, woman....

In some eyes, women are to be demure....

I am proud of breaking that stereotype every day...

Massive · 05-30-2010, 08:07 PM

I love cooking.
I love giving massages.
I love getting flowers.
I call myself a dyke, etc, but I'm proud of having tits.
I always apologise if I burp, even if I'm online and nobody can hear me.
I dye my hair, and I use bright colours ...
I will always stop and ooh and aww at a cute kitten/cat/puppy/dog etc

Martina · 05-31-2010, 08:12 PM

For years i spent most of my free time hanging out with straight white guys in bars and clubs listening to altcountry bands (Steve Earle, Lucinda Williams -- that kind of thing).

My CD's are more important than my shoes or anything i wear.

i wear a few outfits all the time -- rotating. i never have a lot of clothes.

i date femmes as well as butches. i love the butch-femme dynamic. It is effing HOT, but it's not the only dynamic that gets me hot.

i usually decorate my apartments in a sort of sophomore male's dorm room aesthetic.

i pay attention to the people who interest me. i will forget even extremely cute butches' names if they don't do something memorable.

i prefer beer to any other kind of alcoholic drink.

When i have sex people who like these things, i fist, lick, bite, slap, growl, and fuck.

i ID as a lesbian before i ID as femme.

i feel a strong sense of sisterhood with feminine lesbians (not femmes) and straight women. i think of them as like me in many ways.

i'd much rather be naked in public than dressed up in formal attire. (i am naked in public occasionally -- at leather events -- so that's not hypothetical.)

i like butches with curves. (A friend reminded me about that the other day.) YUM.

i take no prisoners when i argue.

i have no crafty hobbies.

i use no emoticons or anything online that twinkles, shines, or sparkles. i will increase my font to wish someone a happy birthday.

There is nothing babygirl or daddy's girl about me. i do not have the gene.

DapperButch · 05-31-2010, 08:17 PM

I shave my legs before I go to the beach.

I have no problems asking for directions.

Blaze · 05-31-2010, 08:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DapperButch

I shave my legs before I go to the beach.

I have no problems asking for directions.

Heck Dapper, I would be in the shower for hours and beside, my weed whacker broke. But I guess I will have to get out the big guns triple blade this year.

05-30-2010, 07:36 PM	#3
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,076 Times in 15,669 Posts Rep Power: 21474875	I break a stereotype everyday I wake up.. I am a loud, opinionated, woman.... In some eyes, women are to be demure.... I am proud of breaking that stereotype every day... __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

05-30-2010, 08:07 PM	#4
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05-31-2010, 08:17 PM	#6
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05-31-2010, 08:12 PM	#5
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,276 Times in 4,164 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	For years i spent most of my free time hanging out with straight white guys in bars and clubs listening to altcountry bands (Steve Earle, Lucinda Williams -- that kind of thing). My CD's are more important than my shoes or anything i wear. i wear a few outfits all the time -- rotating. i never have a lot of clothes. i date femmes as well as butches. i love the butch-femme dynamic. It is effing HOT, but it's not the only dynamic that gets me hot. i usually decorate my apartments in a sort of sophomore male's dorm room aesthetic. i pay attention to the people who interest me. i will forget even extremely cute butches' names if they don't do something memorable. i prefer beer to any other kind of alcoholic drink. When i have sex people who like these things, i fist, lick, bite, slap, growl, and fuck. i ID as a lesbian before i ID as femme. i feel a strong sense of sisterhood with feminine lesbians (not femmes) and straight women. i think of them as like me in many ways. i'd much rather be naked in public than dressed up in formal attire. (i am naked in public occasionally -- at leather events -- so that's not hypothetical.) i like butches with curves. (A friend reminded me about that the other day.) YUM. i take no prisoners when i argue. i have no crafty hobbies. i use no emoticons or anything online that twinkles, shines, or sparkles. i will increase my font to wish someone a happy birthday. There is nothing babygirl or daddy's girl about me. i do not have the gene.