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Old 11-26-2017, 12:54 AM   #1
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I think I dig sneakers more than dress shoes. I'm definitely lazy when it comes to attire. Anyway, Benny 'the jet' PF Flyers will do for me. In the black.
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If only I had the guts to buy these! They fit my sense of style perfectly for casual wear.
Why not buy them?
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I'm not sure they are age appropriate for myself......
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I'm not sure they are age appropriate for myself......
Ha, ok. Sometimes that determines our choices, but...
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I ended up getting a pair of boots for Christmas. These have camo on the uppers instead of the orange upper in one of the pics that i posted earlier. Omg they fit like a cushiony pillow!
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If only I had the guts to buy these! They fit my sense of style perfectly for casual wear.
Que? What's the problem with buying 'em and wearing 'em, dear? (blinks, puzzled). If it involves a bit of a change of style, my advice, from being involved with the Goth and Steampunk scenes, is to first of all wear the new item around home, get used to it, it is a thing that YOU wear now. Then, one day you'll just step outside wearing the item without a thought.

This method has got me out of my flat looking like one of those mad old biddy Victorian lady explorers complete with pith helmet, and travel thus on public transport to a Steampunk get-together. Wear with confidence, and no-one will say a durned thing negative, is my experience.

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Que? What's the problem with buying 'em and wearing 'em, dear? (blinks, puzzled). If it involves a bit of a change of style, my advice, from being involved with the Goth and Steampunk scenes, is to first of all wear the new item around home, get used to it, it is a thing that YOU wear now. Then, one day you'll just step outside wearing the item without a thought.

This method has got me out of my flat looking like one of those mad old biddy Victorian lady explorers complete with pith helmet, and travel thus on public transport to a Steampunk get-together. Wear with confidence, and no-one will say a durned thing negative, is my experience.

Hope that helps!
Great advice. I think homoe should go for it.
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If only I had the guts to buy these! They fit my sense of style perfectly for casual wear.
My favorite shoes are a pair I bought during my 50th birthday celebration at Disneyworld. They're Crocs, hot pink and the holes are actually Mickey Mouses. At 50 I finally figured out I didn't really care what other people thought. I still smile every time I put them on which is frequent.

Get yourself those shoes! What are you waiting for?
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I buy and wear whatever i like. I dont let age or others opinions stop me from buying and wearing the shoes i wear.
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I started wearing guys shoes before I knew I was gay or butch... long before. I've always worn guys athletic shoes cuz they're made better. Cleats... hightops... whatever... always the guys version.

Nowadays... even if I weren't butch I'd figure out a way to wear mens shoes... unisex ... and all that. They're still made better than women's and are more comfortable when you have to be on your feet all day.
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I started wearing guys shoes before I knew I was gay or butch... long before. I've always worn guys athletic shoes cuz they're made better. Cleats... hightops... whatever... always the guys version.

Nowadays... even if I weren't butch I'd figure out a way to wear mens shoes... unisex ... and all that. They're still made better than women's and are more comfortable when you have to be on your feet all day.
I wish I could wear men's shoes but I can't, my feet are way small, so boys shoes work!
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I wish I could wear men's shoes but I can't, my feet are way small, so boys shoes work!
I bet that is frustrating. There must be a lot of styles you want to wear but can't. Are you that far off from a men's size?
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If only I had the guts to buy these! They fit my sense of style perfectly for casual wear.

IF I ever see these again, age be damned, I'm buying them!
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I found my J's hiding in a box in my closet. I must have put them there when we had carpet put in and forgot to put them back on my shoe rack.

I decided to wear them today. Hi tops of course, gray colored.

Mine are cheaper cuz i wear boys wide size shoes. 4 1/2. So cost is way down from big feet cost Lol
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When I shop: my first stop is at the *mens* footwear section.

I know my conversion size is 7.5 to 8.0.

Unless I am looking for a *man/men* appearance specifically: the bargains and fit are found in the *male* isle.

Otherwise: if your first sight is on my foot wear...sneakers/loafers etc. I will need moment for a costume change...

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