Instant Turn-Offs

Gemme · 01-22-2018, 08:42 PM

Winks can turn into twitches and ticks surprisingly fast.

Lyte · 01-22-2018, 10:16 PM

See! A good wink requires a serious workout regimen! Winking is not for amateurs!

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Originally Posted by Gemme

Winks can turn into twitches and ticks surprisingly fast.

Medusa · 01-22-2018, 10:42 PM

Instant turn-off = Fakery and disingenuousness. Like, that thing where you meet people who are bullshit artists. They aren’t even themselves, just bits and pieces they’ve gleaned as “special” from other people’s experiences or personalities.

No no no!

cathexis · 01-23-2018, 02:22 AM

Lying is something I despise (the main offense).
Excessive swearing (especially when unnecessary)
Impolite behavior to anyone. I don't care if it's the janitor, they deserve acknowledgement.
An individual is not equal only to the job they hold. Even professors can be schmucks.

clay · 01-23-2018, 08:38 AM

Someone who "plays" others

Racism

Disrespecting others who may be differently abled (superficial/shallow mindedness)

RockOn · 01-24-2018, 05:03 AM

someone at work ...

their every existance at work is very calculated ... they MUST do everything possible to underhandedly (smoke and mirrors effect) encourage others to always view them in a favorable light

undetectable unless you work very close to this person and pay very close attention ... then you can see this hand-crafted personality ... person will have perfect timing in displaying modesty, can also throw out believable lies on the fly with no hesitation

very well practiced in the art of deception ... (Rolling Stones song quote)

also, brings "social engineering" to my mind since I am a software developer ...

Social engineering can be defined as using deception and manipulation to obtain confidential information. I have found that is an interesting topic to read about. (google: books by Kevin Mitnick .... techniques are disclosed)

VintageFemme · 01-24-2018, 07:01 AM

The list seems to grow as I age. Not sure how I feel about that. Goddess, I hope I'm not becoming a crotchety old intolerant spinster!

Arrogance
Pretentiousness
Apathy
Self Centered
Religion
Emotional Immaturity
Disrespect
Lack of Manners

Martina · 04-09-2018, 02:50 PM

People who try to gross you out or are crude and disgusting without caring that they might be offensive.

01-22-2018, 08:42 PM	#1
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01-22-2018, 10:42 PM	#3
Medusa Mentally Delicious How Do You Identify?: Queer High Femme, thank you very much Preferred Pronoun?: Mme. Relationship Status: Married to JD. Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 10,446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,995 Thanked 42,699 Times in 7,832 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	Instant turn-off = Fakery and disingenuousness. Like, that thing where you meet people who are bullshit artists. They aren’t even themselves, just bits and pieces they’ve gleaned as “special” from other people’s experiences or personalities. No no no! __________________ . . . Buy ButchFemmePlanet Merch Here: https://teespring.com/stores/butchfemmeplanetcom-merch

01-23-2018, 02:22 AM	#4
cathexis Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Trotskyist, Anarcho-syndicalist Preferred Pronoun?: They, Them, Their, Sir Bitch Relationship Status: open Join Date: Sep 2016 Location: Great White North! Posts: 4,332 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,812 Thanked 4,706 Times in 1,604 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Some instant turn-off Lying is something I despise (the main offense). Excessive swearing (especially when unnecessary) Impolite behavior to anyone. I don't care if it's the janitor, they deserve acknowledgement. An individual is not equal only to the job they hold. Even professors can be schmucks. __________________ Insurrection is an art, and like all arts has its own laws. -----Leon Trotsky

01-23-2018, 08:38 AM	#5
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,136 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 97,015 Thanked 31,675 Times in 7,748 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	Someone who "plays" others Racism Disrespecting others who may be differently abled (superficial/shallow mindedness) __________________ To find someone who will love you for no reason, and to shower that person with reasons, that is the ultimate happiness. ~Robert Brault

01-24-2018, 07:01 AM	#7
VintageFemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Outside Posts: 2,299 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,828 Thanked 7,623 Times in 1,655 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	The list seems to grow as I age. Not sure how I feel about that. Goddess, I hope I'm not becoming a crotchety old intolerant spinster! Arrogance Pretentiousness Apathy Self Centered Religion Emotional Immaturity Disrespect Lack of Manners __________________ Unfinished Business & Open to Serendipity

01-24-2018, 05:03 AM	#6
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	someone at work ... their every existance at work is very calculated ... they MUST do everything possible to underhandedly (smoke and mirrors effect) encourage others to always view them in a favorable light undetectable unless you work very close to this person and pay very close attention ... then you can see this hand-crafted personality ... person will have perfect timing in displaying modesty, can also throw out believable lies on the fly with no hesitation very well practiced in the art of deception ... (Rolling Stones song quote) also, brings "social engineering" to my mind since I am a software developer ... Social engineering can be defined as using deception and manipulation to obtain confidential information. I have found that is an interesting topic to read about. (google: books by Kevin Mitnick .... techniques are disclosed)

04-09-2018, 02:50 PM	#8
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,289 Times in 4,167 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	People who try to gross you out or are crude and disgusting without caring that they might be offensive. __________________ "No matter how cynical I get, I just can't keep up" - Lily Tomlin

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