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Old 06-07-2010, 12:21 AM   #1
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it depends on what's going on for me.

Recently, I spent the weekend with two of my best friends at the beach and I was able to just be in the moment: enjoying the lull of the ocean surf, the dark stormy clouds on the horizon as the sun was nearly gone to the lone calls of birds up above and all of us giggling in merriment over things we were talking about... I need to do that more often - just get away, unplug from everything and just be with friends (or even on my own) out in nature.

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Old 06-07-2010, 02:09 AM   #2
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water
breeze
music
blue
still of night
sleeping pets
being lost in a book
the serenity of being surrounded by books in the silence of the library - or - art in a museum
thinking only of the present moment
good smells
running my hands and feet through the cool sand
pulling the blanket up over my ears in bed
overcoming obstacles
remembering i'm doing the best i can
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Old 06-07-2010, 02:26 AM   #3
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building things
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That hint of blue in the sky, that little sign the sun is coming.
The cool breeze that is just strong enough to make the windchime sing.
That moment to reflect, give thanks for the many blessings, love and people in my life.
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To have my wife in my arms,
the way she smells,
the way she feels, soft and bright,
light against my darkness.
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Accepting me for me.

Comprimsing

writting a program (computer)

Hanging out and watching tv with a friend
shopping

and many many more things

But most of all.......sitting here, looking out the window from my studydesk at school, watching the people walk up and down the hills of downtown tacoma, witht he water off in the distance and the tree's lining the skyline.


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having the one eyed rocking on limping kitty sleep on my feet
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horseback riding
gardening
being near a lake or ocean
walking through the forest

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and little kisses from my Wife
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What brings me peace...

Tilting my face toward the sunlight, closing my eyes, and feeling the warmth on my skin.

Sitting in my rocking chair on my front porch at dusk, and watching the sun turn the sky into the prettiest shades of pink & purple cotton candy at sunset.

Looking out at the waves at the beach, as they crash upon the shore, and feeling the salty breeze on my skin.

A lil' ME time, with a nice glass of wine, a good book & curled up on the couch in my leopard print Snuggie (hey, don't judge)
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Sitting next to the water with the sun on my face and talking to the dragonflys... that always seem to be around me.....i find it very peacful and welcoming

I center myself and I like that I am able to do that for me...along with some help from the dragonflys..

oh and as always loving on my 5 felines that is always something that is peaceful to me
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Sometimes it's alcohol!!!!
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The first couple of hours in my day.....after the puppies wake up and make their little 'visits' outside and are fed & watered...and I sit down with my coffee ~ either at my desk or on the terrace ~ and my gentle music, or the birds waking up and singing 'Good morning'....

It's perfect peacefulness....



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holistic massage,
the pacific ocean,
the scent of the desert after the rain,
dogs snoring,
holding a baby,
painting (creating),
clean sheets,
a long car ride,
when i find chester in my bed and he lazily rolls over wanting a belly rub
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