Amongst us butches ..

[laura4daddy]

Originally Posted by homoe

I've never experienced a femme not believing me when I said she looked good in something..........Compliments are wonderful things, they cost nothing to give and it can make a person's whole day!

Please excuse me, I'm a noob I know but I loved this quote ^.

And yes I totally agree. I have suffered with low self esteem and apparently am told I'm quite attractive but it definitely means a lot when someone looks you in the eye and you can tell they mean it when they compliment you no matter how small, having spent some time getting ready and trying to look your best I guess it's validation in a way but for me, perhaps it's a femme thing but I love dressing to please or to impress so it's almost like an achievement to get a 'you look nice' as most likely I wanted to impress someone or catch someone's eye in the first place. Hope that makes sense.

[homoe]

Originally Posted by laura4daddy

Please excuse me, I'm a noob I know but I loved this quote ^.

And yes I totally agree. I have suffered with low self esteem and apparently am told I'm quite attractive but it definitely means a lot when someone looks you in the eye and you can tell they mean it when they compliment you no matter how small, having spent some time getting ready and trying to look your best I guess it's validation in a way but for me, perhaps it's a femme thing but I love dressing to please or to impress so it's almost like an achievement to get a 'you look nice' as most likely I wanted to impress someone or catch someone's eye in the first place. Hope that makes sense.

I had to look up "noob"....

[Stone-Butch]

I think every femme deserves a complement just for being a femme and taking her time to look her best regardless of her original appearance. Inside is so much more impressive than outside in my opinion. Besides guys there might be a super brain in there and more than likely is. Brains, talent and a good heart far outdoes appearances. If she is good looking that is a bonus.