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11-27-2009, 04:13 PM
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I am a walking butch poster.........
I am a woman, a female and masculine........ however I am not masculine id'd or male id'd I am a butch woman.....2 genders occupying the same space......... to be honest though...........I do have a male id'd part.....it would the the powered-up leather Top/Dom part..........I'm Syr in that head space.....I don't live in that space though.....I play in it when the mood strikes me........ |
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11-27-2009, 04:26 PM
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I live as a man. I try my best to pass. I have had the surgeries, but am not on hormones. I am never going to be allowed to have t. That is what cards I was dealt - all from a childhood head injury.
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11-27-2009, 06:38 PM
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Very difficult question for me. 99.9% of the time I am called Sir, Mister, Him. It's not that I try to look male ID'ed. It's just a given. I have been asked many times from others; at what stage am I in my Trans-gendered transformation. My answer is I am at no stage. When I was 16 I had intestine cancer, to which I had to take Chemo as well as steroids. Thus, I could grow side burns as well as a decent beard if I chose to. But I prefer to shave daily sometime twice a day, is it a blessing? Not really, I hate the
5 O'clock shadow that follows. I do feel comfortable with myself, yet sometimes when I look in the mirror, I am down fonded at what I see. I feel very masculine and yet my breast depress me. I don't want to do any changes to my body, I guess because my mind is strong enough to recognize that I am alright with myself. And that I am a woman, and can be butch at the same time. Thank's for sharing this post! |
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11-27-2009, 06:49 PM
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Blaze, We are like the exact opposite. One who wants and one who wants not. Like driving a car. One wants an SUV and one who wants BMW sedan. Just the cards we were given in life.
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11-27-2009, 10:18 PM
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I'm not "female identified butch" or "male identified butch"... or "masculine identified butch"...
But I am a butch... I am masculine.... I am a female I just am what I am I guess.
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12-01-2009, 11:46 AM
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12-19-2009, 03:30 PM
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I appreciate all those who have posted but am not sure I clearly stated my question. Here, let me try again.
Do others feel that a binary is upheld here in that butches are expected to be male or female identified? It seems that is implied in threads regularly and I find that not creating space for some folks. Thoughts?
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12-25-2009, 04:44 PM
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02-22-2010, 04:49 AM
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My butch identity lies within the realm of being a woman. One that is lesbian, masculine and feminine and whose gender stems from masculine energies projected (and formed) from the female (animus). This is how it has always been for me even when I did not identify as butch (or even knew of the term). Consequently, female-identified butch does provide me with an identification that allows for this fluidity. I can't provide an answer for how it applies to others only for myself. I have never felt that masculine falls exclusively in the domain of men. Nor that femininity falls exclusively in the domain of women. And I feel that the limits of western culture (and language) is what keeps us stuck in the binary. Other cultures (including Native American), do not have this dilemma as they have several terms and descriptors of gender. However, gender theory gives us an opportunity to break through this isolation. For a long time, I could only make sense out of my own gender fluidity and integration through Jungian theory. I gues, I am what I am, too! Last edited by AtLast; 02-22-2010 at 04:52 AM. Reason: error |
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02-22-2010, 08:04 AM
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04-22-2010, 09:01 AM
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When I first met hym and we started to get to know each other..I asked.."how do you identify" it is important for me to know this..so the boundaries are there..I loved what he said
"Im masculine..but i feel like I am the feminine side of a man..the softer side.."This helped me so much to understand hym...confusion in the beginning for this femme anyway is a turn off..be upfront about who and how you identify..makes it easier for both.. Lillie
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07-02-2010, 08:37 PM
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Darth I agree with you on this topic I am a lesbian identified Butch. My behaviours are butch.
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07-27-2010, 01:57 PM
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