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Old 06-26-2010, 01:17 PM   #1
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I can't find any candles and don't wish to ask for some given the weather (it's kinda hot here) and the circumstances. But, I ask for prayer and light for me so that I do not lose my temper with my brother-in-law. He is being difficult and controlling with regards to my going to the doctor's with my sister on Monday. He got in the way of my niece going, and now, by saying that he will not go (and therefore, not help translate) if I go because "three people are too many." And, the doc will feel insulted because she does not speak English (even against the argument that medical terminology is universally in Latin ... ). Anyway, I've put myself in my room so that I won't scream at him and say to him what I really think.
All of this is to say, I need prayer for patience and guidance on how to deal with a person whom I only tolerate because he is my sister's husband. This is one place where I know such pleas will be answered. I promise that, despite what I feel, I won't kill him!
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Today I lit a candle for everyone here that needs our circle of life and our power of prayer.
May your journeys find all of you in the right place when you need to be there.
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Lighting a candle for a specific, sort of selfish need.

Hurricane Alex is headed straight for us.
Please pray for all the people who are in the path of the storm.
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Hurricane Alex is headed straight for us.
Please pray for all the people who are in the path of the storm.

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I light a candle of thanksgiving. I did so go with my sister to her doctor's appointment. The doc was gracious, her English was pretty good, and we were able to communicate well despite the in-law's sulking absence.

As it turns out, it was good that I went. I asked some questions re what was going on about my sister's heart irregularity, and why she was no longer on anticoagulants/blood thinner. The oncologist did not know about this at all. She gently admonished my sister for not telling her ... and I realized that each specialty has their own medical record, and they are not shared! Dumbstruck! The doc asked if I was going to the cardiology appointment scheduled for the 13th, and unfortunately, I will not. But will leave a note for my sister to take there because I learned that she IS taking blood thinner because of the possibility of clotting from her chemo.

Yesterday was my sister's birthday! The doc noticed and wished her happy b'day and asked what she was getting for her day. My sister, always the "straight man", looked up and said, "chemo."

Hopefully, I can shorten the mantra that I've been saying, "I will not kill __" over and over. It was trying, but in the end, at dinner with champagne, grilled shrimp and other delicious fare, we ALL had a good time.

So filled with gratitude ... you just can't know ... thank you for the light and the prayers.
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I light a candle of thanksgiving. I did so go with my sister to her doctor's appointment. The doc was gracious, her English was pretty good, and we were able to communicate well despite the in-law's sulking absence.

As it turns out, it was good that I went. I asked some questions re what was going on about my sister's heart irregularity, and why she was no longer on anticoagulants/blood thinner. The oncologist did not know about this at all. She gently admonished my sister for not telling her ... and I realized that each specialty has their own medical record, and they are not shared! Dumbstruck! The doc asked if I was going to the cardiology appointment scheduled for the 13th, and unfortunately, I will not. But will leave a note for my sister to take there because I learned that she IS taking blood thinner because of the possibility of clotting from her chemo.

Yesterday was my sister's birthday! The doc noticed and wished her happy b'day and asked what she was getting for her day. My sister, always the "straight man", looked up and said, "chemo."

Hopefully, I can shorten the mantra that I've been saying, "I will not kill __" over and over. It was trying, but in the end, at dinner with champagne, grilled shrimp and other delicious fare, we ALL had a good time.

So filled with gratitude ... you just can't know ... thank you for the light and the prayers.
There's an energy here and it works, we support and light for each other; you have the proof. Glad there is peace. Keeping light for you all.
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Today, I light a candle for the wildlife affected by this heinous oil spill.....for the marshlands which may never recover.....for those whose livelyhoods are from the sea....and for those involved in the clean~up of this mess.....and yes, even for the BP powers that be, that they may wake up and fix this.....

I also light a candle for SD and her Syr....for peace.....

A candle is lit, too, for Lady Pamela.....for Nat.....for my daughter......for Coti.....and for Mrs. Walls and Mrs. Cavendish to be convinced that I'm the one for the job!




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she could not come home from the hospital as she has developed pneumonia.
please get better Mam.
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Today I lit another candle for SD and her Syr
May Syr's immune system be boosted and for the latest infection to go away
For SD, for strength to continue battling the beast we all call cancer

Once again I ask that we take our powerful ring of prayer together
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From Olga's beautiful service....

Remember Me

Do not shed tears when I have gone
but smile instead because I have lived
Do not shut your eyes and pray to God
that I'll come back
But open your eyes and see
all that I have left behind
I know your heart will be empty
Because you cannot see me
but I still want you to be full of the love we shared
You can turn your back on tomorrow
and live only for yesterday
Or you can be happy for tomorrow
because of what happened between us yesterday
You can remember me and grieve that I have gone,
or you can cherish my memory
and let it live on
You can cry and lose yourself, become distraught
and turn your back on the world
Or you can do what I want-
Smile, and wipe away the tears
learn to love again and go on
I can't go on
I must go on
I'll go on.

1908-2010


Damon and I miss you so much....


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