what NOT to do in a relationship.......

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Originally Posted by cody

ok thats why it was posted in the things not to do!!! i fought this battle once many years ago i learned from it.. and didnt realize by posting it "as something not to do" i would feel i had to defend mself..

No defense necessary. We are commenting on the situation itself as it would pertain to us, not on you personally. I'm pretty sure the same comments would arise if it'd been a "Hey, I heard that someone did this once and it seems like a bad idea so I'm going to put it in here" thing versus a "Hey, this happened and it sucked, so don't do it" thing.