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 I would have given my grandparents the attention they deserved instead of giving in to my teenage selfishness.
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08-21-2010, 09:14 PM
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Not much of anything. I would keep it the same. I have learned a great deal from my mistakes: how to say no, how to set boundaries, how to recognize dishonourable people, how to discern those who have great ethics and those who do not and most importantly how to love someone with my whole heart unconditionally. I was never a great believer in unconditional love. Hy showed it to me. A great role model. If I turned back the hard times, I would not have this amazing devotion and love now.
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08-21-2010, 09:21 PM
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lots of things... but right now... getting a higher college education and coming out earlier.
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08-21-2010, 09:32 PM
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Not let all the baggage from the past stay stuck to my coat-tails.
Learn that I'm only human. Been born with the side of my family that stayed in the US all those years ago.
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08-21-2010, 11:12 PM
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I would have agreed to purchase COBRA insurance so I wouldn't be stuck in my current situation with multiple trips to the hospital, new prescriptions and my Lupus kicking my ass (among other things wearing me out).
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08-22-2010, 08:46 AM
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I would have moved home to spend as much time as possible with my Mom before she died... then stayed home to take care of Dad and spend those last two precious years with him 24/7. I miss them. Then, I would have met Stacy about 10 years sooner to avoid a whole lotta heartache and start my forever sooner. But that said... I absolutely love my life the way it turned out.
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08-22-2010, 10:18 AM
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I am not sure I would change much of anything.... my ten year controlling relationship led me here... yes it caused me severe emotional distress... I have grown so much from it, learned so much from it. It made me strong and independent. It kept me from falling into the same footsteps of my family. And if I hadnt moved here and done the growing I have done I wouldnt have met my Daddy.. the love of my life...
However, the growing I did from that past relationship caused me to become extremely dominant and put up defense mechanisms that are unhealthy. I wish over the past year I had done some self reflection on how that dominance was affecting me, us. I am glad I see it now. Now to work on "me" and make healthy changes.
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08-22-2010, 10:40 AM
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sometimes I sit back and wonder what I would have changed but as I play it through I see how necessary some things were. Everything leading me to here. What an amazing journey... but
there are some things I would like to change I should have studied archaeology in school like I wanted to instead of listening to people to study business. The year I took off work to spend with my son, then a toddler, to explore of rural living, my first time, wish my head wasn't so fucked up over a woman and if I could go back I'd focus on him and me, gardening, exploring life instead of crying and longing for someone that was incapable truth. I should have taken all the money I invested into building this place, the outside and did more remodeling inside. I should have installed a big ass tub and swimming pool. I should have paid better attention... oh so many times. lol
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08-22-2010, 11:05 AM
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. If i could go back, I would pass on it. Keep moving forward is my motto. My fav movie is the time machine and i would absolutely love to see the future to make changes now.
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I would have made better choices during a very curious time in my life and listened to the ones who loved me instead of being so darn stubborn. Knowing what I do now, I would've held on and not been so selfish during that time.
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10-31-2012, 03:11 PM
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I would never have moved out of state....on a whim of absolute faith....
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10-31-2012, 05:28 PM
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(@ 18)i would have left no matter what was promised
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