The older I get, the more I realize...

[Jude]

Originally Posted by SelfMadeMan

Ohhhhh so true!

I've learned that you are ultimately responsible for what you allow others to do to you. If you allow others, regardless of who they are, to continually disrespect you and treat you poorly, then you are just as much to blame for the hurt it causes.

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What you get out of life is what you choose. How you are treated by others (and how you treat others) is a direct reflection of your belief in your own self worth. Truly self-actualized people have no need to treat others with cruelty. If we feel that we need to be better than somebody else, that's an internal flaw within ourselves.

Learning to "GET OVER IT" is a terrific way to conduct ones life.

Not everybody we meet and know is going to like us, and SO WHAT?

So what is also what's so!!!