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10-30-2010, 05:42 PM
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It's hard and takes A LOT of work, the rewards I have found AMAZING!!
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10-30-2010, 05:54 PM
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and that is why i have learned that not everyone is bad and that I will love again
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10-30-2010, 05:59 PM
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ive had some fantastic LDRs and ive had some not so great. the not so great ones i had very high expetations of them and them of me. the fantastic ones were the ones where we kept it on a honest "lets do it for the good times" and see what happens type. neither of us making any big promises. although the traveling was a pain in the but and expensive it was usually well worth it.
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10-30-2010, 06:25 PM
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I so remember those feelings. Damon and I were in a LDR in the beginning. We saw each other on weekends thank goodness but those inbetween nights were very tough. However, they made the relationship that much stronger.
Today we work different shifts and I see him only 2 nights a week and a small amount on the weekends. I wouldnt have him work any other shift, however, it does make it hard sometimes. Those times in the beginning are what I rely on to remind me that love is what matters not how much time you get to spend together. Sometimes I have to remind myself that our time together is even more special BECAUSE it is short. Its easy to get caught up in the missing of that person when you are apart. So do what you can to make that time special. Beautiful writing.. by the way... Thanks for sharing
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10-31-2010, 12:26 AM
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Thank you for this post. I need this reminder to enjoy the time we have together. I will be meeting my LDR in person for the first time soon. We both count the days. I am so looking forward to that time together, but feeling that it will be so much harder to be away from him after we have been together. (Why on earth am I stressing on this instead of concentrating on the pleasure of seeing him?) He says it will be easier because then at least we will know that we actually do like each other in person and we won't have that worry any more. (Though I am not super worried about whether I will really like him as I have had kind of a crush on him for three years, and we had talked casually several times before things kind of "caught fire" between us. This is my first really long distance LDR. We are most of the continent away from each other. Some days are lots of fun with all the phone talk and the great things we share. Other days are very hard because are so far apart. Good news for us is we are both in a position to be able to move and we are both willing to move. I very much want for us to be the "ever after" kind of LDR. Smooches, Keri |
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10-31-2010, 02:04 AM
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Sparx and I 'met' long distance. She was in Canada.... way far away... like 3,000 miles.... and I was in Washington. Neither of us even considered it could turn "serious" because of that. I didn't know Canadian Geography... I just knew she was far away.... and she knew I was far away.
But we became fast friends. We clicked from a chemistry standpoint from the beginning and a friendship one. We talked for 4-5 hours minimum every day (yay for chat, and then webcam/voice chat on the computer). The only reason we even met was because a friend of mine was getting married somewhere far away and, out of curiousity, I checked to see how close I was going to be to where Sparx lived... turned out - only a very short flight... so we planned our first visit. We spent a week together, and after all those many hours of talking - of not trying to impress each other, and of just being ourselves (what did we have to lose, since we figured we'd never even meet), we discovered we were in love. We had some hard conversations, then. Okay, we were in love, but what were we going to (or willing to) do about it? What were our options.... we had two different countries to deal with. Ultimately, the best for all involved was to settle in Canada, marriage was legal and I could immigrate as Her spouse once we were married... and we picked Vancouver. She and the boys needed to move away from the small town they were in as they were in an economically depressed area. Vancouver was further than they'd planned but had a LOT of opportunities for her and the boys (one of whom is officially gifted - tested etc, the other classified as a gifted underachiever) and school, etc. AND this would keep me a reasonable drive away from some of my closest friends and family members. The nice thing about this choice was that we ALL moved to a new place... a new city... and began our life together, there, fresh. It wasn't anyone's home turf. This was a HUGE advantage because we all had to learn and adapt together. Additionally, during the immigration process, we were married but living apart, so we transitioned from a cross continent LDR, to a three hour commute LDR as I could come up to Vancouver to visit most weekends until my paperwork was finished.... i temporarily relocated just a wee bit closer during the interim period which made a huge difference. Look, the thing is, that LDRs ARE hard... but if it's the right relationship, if it's healthy and you've taken the time to get to know each other, there are ways to make it work... but the best advice I could give anyone is that really old fashioned advice. Get to know each other with less strings attached, first. Get comfortable, really comfortable with the person - get to the point where you know you're able to totally let go and be yourself - before you uproot yourself or ask your partner to uproot themselves. Find out what makes sense, together. Sparx and I had these tough conversations, we had to be brutally honest with each other. We talked about the impact our decisions and plans would have on us if, ultimately, the relationship and/or marriage didn't last. We had to know that moving to Vancouver would ultimately be a wise choice - no matter what. Risk vs. Benefit. Neither of us wanted to have big regrets if things didn't work out. Those conversations were hard. We were in the swooney honeymoon romantic stage. I didnt' want to talk about "What if we break up", but looking back five years later - I am so glad we did. I don't have to wonder, now, if some part of Her or the boys regrets moving here. I know they don't. I know they wanted this, not JUST because of me, but because it was the right thing for the three of them. As so many have said - communicate, communicate, communicate! Be authentic. Really hear each other. There really are some magical love stories out there that began as LDRs.... ~o |
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10-31-2010, 02:32 AM
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I have, and it is very doubtful that I will ever again. I don't even consider it as a viable option anymore. 
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10-30-2010, 06:02 PM
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10-30-2010, 06:07 PM
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If we had the knowledge and tools we have now.... LOL
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10-30-2010, 06:11 PM
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I don't care for LDRs.
They are frustrating as hell. It's like a limbo that doesn't seem to go away. I hate limbo. |
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10-30-2010, 06:17 PM
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Everyone on here that knows me knows I have screamed for years that I wouldnt.. I dont wanna etc etc....
I cant say that anymore. I am open. I am willing to say after speaking with friends what my boundaries are. I wont move. Communicate, communicate, communicate with me and so many other things... But, I would open my heart for the right one. Near or far. Sure it will and would be frustrating but my baby would be so worth the wait... 
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10-30-2010, 06:35 PM
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   Soooo happy for you both...
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10-30-2010, 07:50 PM
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 Organic and I knew each other before the Reunion. Neither one of us anticipated he'd come home with me from the Reunion, though. Or did I come home with him? Well, we were in the same van.  I've had LDRs that worked the way they needed to work for us to function and then there were some that didn't. It is what it is; it's up to the couple to determine exactly what IT is, though. |
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10-30-2010, 07:53 PM
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Im not sure I will get in another one right now only because people have to high of expectations for me, I work and i am finally getting my career going. plus people say I am to young and blah blah.
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10-30-2010, 08:48 PM
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Beautiful and well written. I have had more than my share of LDRs. I would never do it again. It was too painful. A few women and I remain friends to this day but it took awhile to get to that point. The ones who were completely false; oh I won't risk it again. Learned my lesson.
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10-30-2010, 09:43 PM
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They can be amazing and beautiful...
They can be lonely and sad... They will work or they will not... They are Hard! But as so many have said... Those that work have great rewards - those that haven't - have been lessons learned. They are Hard and if you plan on getting involved in one... Know they take WORK - so much work, especially if they are an airplane away or a continent (lol). Work and Communication.
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I happened to be here today reading your poetry and felt led to lift a single line from your poem because over the years in my life, I've felt that - who I am & how I present - as a Femme, caused me to feel as if no one could see me for me; that I was 'invisible.' It's only been since the past summer that I was able to internalize that by being who I am, as I present myself (here online or in everyday life itself), that I am visible: I have come to learn that when I am true to myself and express myself in all the myriad ways I identify; my doing so causes another to notice me and find me (so to speak). I enjoyed your poetry today and thanks for sharing your talent in our online community! 
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