Were you adopted in a closed adoption?

[Sam]

Originally Posted by apocalipstic

Now for a couple of questions to get us started:

Have you always known you were adopted?

Have you met your birth parents?

How did your adopted parents tell you you were adopted?

Thank you for your participation, I know this is a rough subject.

Jen

First off i never knew you were adopted. Not a bad thing, just never knew.

I have always known i was adopted. My parents told me at a young age. I dont really remember how they told me, but i remember knowing.

I have never met my birth parents, i have no real idea where they are, who they are or if they are even still alive.

Closed adoption suck ass. NYS is very hard on giving out any kinds of info, hell im 42 fucking years old, i deserve to know.

I always told myself i would wait to start my search for my birth parents after both my parents past on. after my dad passed in 2006, i wrote to NYS.

I got a letter back at christmas time 2006 giving me very little about my birth mother.

She was canadian, she was 20 and I was her first child. wow that was all, never heard anything again from NYS.

Going to read through the thread now.