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Old 12-22-2009, 06:12 PM   #1
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Singing to old favourite tracks at the top of my voice and not caring if I'm in tune or know all the words or not.
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What gives me peace:

meditation

yoga (when I can stop thinking and just make it happen)

of which I need to do both...

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Peace for me:

Meditation

Prayer - lots of it today

Rereading My Holy Books on Tape
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1. meditation
2. prayer and faith
3. xanax ( kidding, but sometimes I probably could use it )

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There is something about the bare limbs of a tree against a bleak winter sky that brings me peace.

*Mindfulness of my breath (breathe in peace, breathe out love)

Staring into the flickering flame of a fire or candle

Driving alone down a desolate road

The sound of the ocean

A walk in the woods

A starry night

Silence

* http://www.leighb.com/peaceluv.htm
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Last night's Wolf Moon gave me an extreme amount of peace. I felt compelled to stand and watch it as it rose, knowing there there were so many I loved who were seeing it, too, and I felt joined with them...........appreciating the beauty of it........together.

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owning my own shit. I cant pass it off to others because it clings to me like saran wrap. So unless I can really see it, own it, and correct it, I am always going to end up in a tangled mess...with no peace....

and no matter where you go, there you are...so you cant run to a different local and leave it behind....

peace, like crisis, follows its mother....
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Being able to trust

Quiet time spent in reflection
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*Listening to the rain hit my roof;

*Being outside while it is snowing and the defining silence;

*Meditating;

*Praying;

*Participating in Church, and related social activities in feeding the poor, homeless, and children;

*Caring for animals, and loving them.
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I DO.....only one can give one's self peace.
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Listening to the oceans waves roll in and out...

My cats purring

The Spa at the Borgata in Atlantic City...Just awesome.

Mint hot chocolate.

My feet rubbed with lavender foot cream

Scented Candles and watching the flame

Fireplaces light, warmth and crackles

The smell and sound of the rain on freshly cut grass

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Truer words could never be spoken, I too choose peace.


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Someone I trust completely in control.
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My wife.

That is all that is necessary.

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Finality......


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