The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

[morningstar55]

Originally Posted by Sweepea

Argggggg--- I have just spent the last two hours looking at profiles on about five different singles sites. What the Sam Hill do people want now days ? I know I am a great catch--- am I too old or too fat---- smoke? Good Grief---- I am tired of trying to sell my WONDERFUL self. Where do you FIND a transman in SO CA???( I just needed to vent) ((Thanks))

omg....... i hear ya 100% .. lol
who knows what they are looking for .... I know what i want ..but im kinda giving up... im tired of trying to sell myself.

Originally Posted by blue eyes

I think alot of people want to met someone at partys,school,church, Gay events. Then taking a chance on any web places. I'm not saying its bad to on webs but,some people are that way do to fear if they answer a ad it could end up as not safe or a "bad deal"
blueeyes226_l.

it doesnt matter where you meet these days....... be it internet or in person.
you really dont know the person you are dating, etc.... for a while.
for me i like old fashion dating in person kinda thing .. its a click thing too.
your either compatable or your not.