Which term(s) do you prefer?

rlin · 01-19-2011, 05:18 PM

i have many different ways of addressing her...
from SO in biz dealings over to my partner or lover or my girl, or even maybe my bitch...
and yeah, i fully understand the connotations behind each... different strokes and all that...

citybutch · 01-19-2011, 05:23 PM

My wife is my wife (ha!)...

She calls me her partner.... and husbutch in some arenas.... It all just depends on whom she is speaking with... and how much they really understand...

Admin · 01-19-2011, 05:26 PM

I have referred to Jack as my husband or husbutch in the past depending on the context. I made a conscience choice to refer to her as my partner in all areas (with the segue into "honeypie" every now and then) a long while back. It works better for us.

weatherboi · 01-19-2011, 06:08 PM

some venues require me to call Her Master.
on the job i call Her Ms.
around my folks i call Her Ms.
She calls me slave and boy a lot.
sometimes She calls me grant.
sometimes i will whisper Her given name in Her ear.

01-19-2011, 05:23 PM	#2
citybutch Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: I answer to "hey you" (either works for me!) Relationship Status: 19 years together- Very Married for 10 years Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: San Diego Posts: 557 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 835 Thanked 1,194 Times in 355 Posts Rep Power: 6434867	My wife is my wife (ha!)... She calls me her partner.... and husbutch in some arenas.... It all just depends on whom she is speaking with... and how much they really understand... __________________ Take care of your body, take care of your health... You never know when the walls cave in and it all changes for good.

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01-19-2011, 05:18 PM	#1
rlin Member How Do You Identify?: human Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: nomad Posts: 712 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,450 Thanked 1,189 Times in 451 Posts Rep Power: 1004849	i have many different ways of addressing her... from SO in biz dealings over to my partner or lover or my girl, or even maybe my bitch... and yeah, i fully understand the connotations behind each... different strokes and all that...

01-19-2011, 05:26 PM	#3
Admin Administrator How Do You Identify?: Queer High Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: Married to JD. Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: The Planet Posts: 1,686 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 394 Thanked 5,625 Times in 1,013 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I have referred to Jack as my husband or husbutch in the past depending on the context. I made a conscience choice to refer to her as my partner in all areas (with the segue into "honeypie" every now and then) a long while back. It works better for us.

01-19-2011, 06:08 PM	#4
weatherboi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Owned boy Preferred Pronoun?: Hey boy!!! Relationship Status: counting freckles slowly under Her direction!!! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: i have 2 sets of geographic coordinates!!! Posts: 6,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,797 Thanked 12,549 Times in 2,993 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	some venues require me to call Her Master. on the job i call Her Ms. around my folks i call Her Ms. She calls me slave and boy a lot. sometimes She calls me grant. sometimes i will whisper Her given name in Her ear.