"You're Not A Lesbian......" So Annoying!

chefhottie25 · 02-08-2011, 02:07 PM

this use to happen to my ex girlfriend all the time. the worst part about it was that the comments mostly came
from her gay guy friends. it made her previous girlfriend paranoid...always questioning if she was really a
lesbian...and making comments every time she would talk innocently to guys. i was annoyed that she had to
always had to defend her sexuality. i felt bad for her. i could only be supportive. it wasn't an experience that
i could relate to. when someone claims how they choose to identify it is not open for discussion. it needs to
be respected. i offer my compassion to anyone going through this.

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02-08-2011, 02:07 PM	#5
chefhottie25 Member How Do You Identify?: boi Preferred Pronoun?: hy Relationship Status: happily taken Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: ohio Posts: 1,406 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26 Thanked 889 Times in 478 Posts Rep Power: 1175217	this use to happen to my ex girlfriend all the time. the worst part about it was that the comments mostly came from her gay guy friends. it made her previous girlfriend paranoid...always questioning if she was really a lesbian...and making comments every time she would talk innocently to guys. i was annoyed that she had to always had to defend her sexuality. i felt bad for her. i could only be supportive. it wasn't an experience that i could relate to. when someone claims how they choose to identify it is not open for discussion. it needs to be respected. i offer my compassion to anyone going through this.