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Old 02-28-2011, 06:51 PM   #1
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Old 02-28-2011, 07:00 PM   #2
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Haha, thanks!

Well, it's a really funny story how it happened, but to sum up? My good friend, who is her good friend... told me to "go for it."

Only, this girl I like... doesn't know I'm friends with her friend. Did that make any sense?

I've heard that if she gives her number, instead of asking for yours, it's a good sign she's interested... I guess I'm just nervous because she's pretty much one of the most gorgeous girls I've ever met. Mhm.

She asked for my FB, first, though... is that normal these days?
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I'm probably not the best authority on what folks do these days but I would that her asking you for any kind of contact info is a good sign.

Set the nerves aside, breath, and call her!

And then come back and tell us what happens!
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She asked for my FB, first, though... is that normal these days?
Facebook Breakups are HORRID (so I have been told)
Don't give her your FB name.
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Facebook Breakups are HORRID (so I have been told)
Don't give her your FB name.
Geez Julie she hasnt had a date yet and you already got her worrying about nasty FB breakups.

Prox....call her, ask her out. Saves a lot of time and energy.

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Well, I was just doing the right thing and giving a girl the heads up!
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Oh, but you see, I don't have FB - hence why she then gave me her phone number, written in eyeliner on a receipt Well, she had a friend write it for her, but still

And, I've already been texting her since last night... I'm trying to keep it casual, but I'm also being sweet - I complimented her on her show the other night

She's definitely the type to ask me out, first, and I'm completely shy... though I'm proud of myself for approaching her and talking to her, because I NEVER DO THAT.
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Oh, but you see, I don't have FB - hence why she then gave me her phone number, written in eyeliner on a receipt Well, she had a friend write it for her, but still

And, I've already been texting her since last night... I'm trying to keep it casual, but I'm also being sweet - I complimented her on her show the other night

She's definitely the type to ask me out, first, and I'm completely shy... though I'm proud of myself for approaching her and talking to her, because I NEVER DO THAT.
I just photo stalked you!
No issues... She will be smearing her eyeliner on more than just paper soon!
Keep us POSTED!
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Oh, but you see, I don't have FB - hence why she then gave me her phone number, written in eyeliner on a receipt Well, she had a friend write it for her, but still

And, I've already been texting her since last night... I'm trying to keep it casual, but I'm also being sweet - I complimented her on her show the other night

She's definitely the type to ask me out, first, and I'm completely shy... though I'm proud of myself for approaching her and talking to her, because I NEVER DO THAT.


Its not Melissa Ethridge right?

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Valid point.

And seeing a nasty breakup was the impetus for FB....it is a fair warning.



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id say when she shows up at in the morning on your day off with your favorite coffee and said i thought you might like coffee...lol
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id say when she shows up at in the morning on your day off with your favorite coffee and said i thought you might like coffee...lol
If someone did this for me, I would be grinning all day long.
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It really sucks when you get all the right words.. But your left waiting for the actions to follow. Especially because all those perfect words make you want those actions so badly. *Heart is working hard to mend and try and move past this situation right now*

If you think telling a girl you are in to her, care for her, love her.. is the right thing to do, because you think that's what she wants to hear.. You are wrong. You just mess with our mind, and our heart.. And it hurts more in the end than just being straight up and saying your not for me.

^^^ that is what makes it sooo damn hard to tell if someone is really in to you or not.. Took me time to figure it out, longer than I would have hoped for.. But at least I get it now. Maybe it's not even that it is hard to tell.. Maybe sometimes you know it, but you just don't want to accept the truth.
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id say when she shows up at in the morning on your day off with your favorite coffee and said i thought you might like coffee...lol


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If anyone figures out how to tell if someone is really into you, please let me know! I am TERRIBLE at telling such things, unless a person is really obvious about it.. On one occasion, someone was trying to chat me up for a solid half hour before my then partner rescued me - she and her friend had been having bets as to how long it'd take before I twigged!
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It's not always possible to tell. If they ask you out for coffee, it's a good bet. If you're still not sure, ask them. Say are you interested in dating or are you looking for new friends? Dating ain't for the meek.
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Yes, this is hard especially when dealing with femmes not from this site. I have a lunch date planned with a young lady that I met out in the world. I am a little scared. There will be that uncomfortable discussion about sex that I am not looking forward to. It is so much easier with ladies from this site because we all know were we stand.
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