I need some advice!!!

little_ms_sunshyne · 04-10-2011, 04:46 PM

I don't know if I can help...but I will give you my two cents.

I dated a few people prior to my relationship now. Although, they were absolutely wonderful...The chemistry was just not there. I eventually started dating someone who I thought I kinda liked. Similar situation. They had great qualities, so I went on a few more dates. But nothing seemed to change that there was nothing there. When I met T, my world change. I was slapped in the face with feelings I had never felt before. I met someone that made me want to be a better person. The feelings that I once thought were "love" paled in comparison. It scared the crap out of me that it happened so fast!

So what I am trying to say is....There isn't anything wrong with you. Sometimes things just dont work out the way you think that they should. Chemisty or Energy is off. Which can be frustrating, but when you finally get to the place that you are meant to be, you are extremely grateful that the road led you there.

I guess I am one of those hopeless romantics that believes in Fate and those moments of Serendipity

Good Luck I hope you get to where you are meant to be soon!

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04-10-2011, 04:46 PM	#5
little_ms_sunshyne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: . Posts: 3,312 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,339 Thanked 12,241 Times in 2,541 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I don't know if I can help...but I will give you my two cents. I dated a few people prior to my relationship now. Although, they were absolutely wonderful...The chemistry was just not there. I eventually started dating someone who I thought I kinda liked. Similar situation. They had great qualities, so I went on a few more dates. But nothing seemed to change that there was nothing there. When I met T, my world change. I was slapped in the face with feelings I had never felt before. I met someone that made me want to be a better person. The feelings that I once thought were "love" paled in comparison. It scared the crap out of me that it happened so fast! So what I am trying to say is....There isn't anything wrong with you. Sometimes things just dont work out the way you think that they should. Chemisty or Energy is off. Which can be frustrating, but when you finally get to the place that you are meant to be, you are extremely grateful that the road led you there. I guess I am one of those hopeless romantics that believes in Fate and those moments of Serendipity Good Luck I hope you get to where you are meant to be soon!