The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

ruthie14 · 05-03-2011, 04:22 AM

Morning all!

Morning star... good luck on the job search. I am having the devil of a time finding a new job so for now, stuck with the very stressful one. Ended up in the er again on sunday night with a migraine. This job is too damn stressful!

Welcome to all the newcomers! Nice to see some new "faces"!

I love what all of you are talking about. Getting to know someone before you rush in. I am also having trouble with friends here insisting that I just go out and get laid. NOT into that either. I get a lot of offers for that kinda thing, but no one wants to date or have a gf.. just sex. I'm just not built that way. OK for them, not a prude, just not right for me. Don 't get me wrong, love sex, have a high sex drive, but only within a relationship... just me. Glad to see others who share this point of view. I was begining to think I was one of a very few.

Ruthie

morningstar55 · 05-03-2011, 04:40 AM

good morning Loft thread dwellers and peekers

ha ruthie...... i been told that before too .. about getting laid.. lol
i been in such a slump... with my mood for drawing/painting /creating.. some told me i need love in my life to get my mojo back...... or to just get laid.. ha .. well i dont know about that... there has to be feelings there in the love making dept for me.
just my 2 cents.. ty for the reppies everone.

msW8ing · 05-03-2011, 11:31 AM

I'm so right there with ya all on the just sex thing. Personally I need an emotional connection to go there with someone. I'm not wired for a "friends with benefits" or just to "get laid" if I wanted just to get laid I'd crawl up a chickens butt and wait. lol It's not just the sex it's the intimacy. So many have no clue that they are NOT the same thing. I'm so glad there are others that think as I do. Thank you!

msW8ing · 05-05-2011, 07:28 AM

Good Morning everyone. Just stopping in to wish ya all a Happy Thursday!!

morningstar55 · 05-05-2011, 02:38 PM

wow what a eventful day I had ........

just got in from doc's and getting scrips filled......I just went in to get my test results from all that blood they took from me last week.. then got a awsome load to pick up and take to pittsburgs.... but i was feeling like crap all morning, chills, yucky tummy , and my blood pressure was spiked way high.. soooooooooo
took a nap, and ate a few crackers, ginger ale.. now having some freshly made won ton soup..

feeling better.... cancelled my load.. was feeling to sick to move , much less running down the road i n the truck..
oh and it seems that .. my test results said i had NO vitamin D in my system.. sooo im on some major strong D's..
anyways....... think im gonna plant myself in front of the tv for a spell ..... bbl
hope everyone had a better day then i did.. heh

Galahad · 05-07-2011, 11:02 AM

Happy Saturday, hope everyone is over the virus and the terrible weather. Looks like another day in paradise here, except, I need to go shopping and have lazed about watching the garden shows until too late. It will be so crowded out now. Hate that.

rustedrims · 05-08-2011, 11:47 AM

Hello everyone..

A few new names in here since i was in here last..Great.!!.

The thing about "gettin-laid"..Yeah we can all do that but is it who we really want to be with..Yeah close your eyes and imagine who you want it to be and really get into it BUT,,Ya gotta open your eyes sometime..Now you have possibly given that person false hopes of a relationship and maybe another night with your eyes closed..
There is a guy at work that has made his News Years Resolution on getting me in bed with him..Keep telling him it will never happen..Come on now..I am a butch woman and look every bit of it..Do i need to explain..??..

Hey blueeyes have things quieted down for ya yet..??..

Wishing everyone a good week and happy chatting..

morningstar55 · 05-17-2011, 06:28 AM

mawning Lofters
hope you all have a awsome day

morningstar55 · 05-17-2011, 09:16 AM

on my way to the shower.. ya know them claw skill games with the prizes inside you have to grab with it??? well silly me... thought id throw in a buck , try it out .. as i rarely ever play them things.. and .. WOW.. look what i won!! lol .. a MP3 player... now i guess i have to figure out how to work it.. lol

http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.php?id=524244677

05-03-2011, 04:22 AM	#1
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946336	\ Morning all! Morning star... good luck on the job search. I am having the devil of a time finding a new job so for now, stuck with the very stressful one. Ended up in the er again on sunday night with a migraine. This job is too damn stressful! Welcome to all the newcomers! Nice to see some new "faces"! I love what all of you are talking about. Getting to know someone before you rush in. I am also having trouble with friends here insisting that I just go out and get laid. NOT into that either. I get a lot of offers for that kinda thing, but no one wants to date or have a gf.. just sex. I'm just not built that way. OK for them, not a prude, just not right for me. Don 't get me wrong, love sex, have a high sex drive, but only within a relationship... just me. Glad to see others who share this point of view. I was begining to think I was one of a very few. Ruthie

05-03-2011, 04:40 AM	#2
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	good morning Loft thread dwellers and peekers ha ruthie...... i been told that before too .. about getting laid.. lol i been in such a slump... with my mood for drawing/painting /creating.. some told me i need love in my life to get my mojo back...... or to just get laid.. ha .. well i dont know about that... there has to be feelings there in the love making dept for me. just my 2 cents.. ty for the reppies everone. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

05-03-2011, 11:31 AM	#3
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,497 Times in 654 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I'm so right there with ya all on the just sex thing. Personally I need an emotional connection to go there with someone. I'm not wired for a "friends with benefits" or just to "get laid" if I wanted just to get laid I'd crawl up a chickens butt and wait. lol It's not just the sex it's the intimacy. So many have no clue that they are NOT the same thing. I'm so glad there are others that think as I do. Thank you! __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

05-05-2011, 07:28 AM	#4
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,497 Times in 654 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Good Morning everyone. Just stopping in to wish ya all a Happy Thursday!! __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

05-05-2011, 02:38 PM	#5
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	wow what a eventful day I had ........ just got in from doc's and getting scrips filled......I just went in to get my test results from all that blood they took from me last week.. then got a awsome load to pick up and take to pittsburgs.... but i was feeling like crap all morning, chills, yucky tummy , and my blood pressure was spiked way high.. soooooooooo took a nap, and ate a few crackers, ginger ale.. now having some freshly made won ton soup.. feeling better.... cancelled my load.. was feeling to sick to move , much less running down the road i n the truck.. oh and it seems that .. my test results said i had NO vitamin D in my system.. sooo im on some major strong D's.. anyways....... think im gonna plant myself in front of the tv for a spell ..... bbl hope everyone had a better day then i did.. heh __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

05-07-2011, 11:02 AM	#6
Galahad Member How Do You Identify?: do I have to? Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: I.E. Southern California Posts: 425 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,300 Thanked 338 Times in 151 Posts Rep Power: 1446605	Happy Saturday, hope everyone is over the virus and the terrible weather. Looks like another day in paradise here, except, I need to go shopping and have lazed about watching the garden shows until too late. It will be so crowded out now. Hate that.

05-08-2011, 11:47 AM	#7
rustedrims Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Northern Ohio close to Lake Erie and ice-cream places Posts: 445 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,125 Thanked 2,555 Times in 368 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Peekin-in Hello everyone.. A few new names in here since i was in here last..Great.!!. The thing about "gettin-laid"..Yeah we can all do that but is it who we really want to be with..Yeah close your eyes and imagine who you want it to be and really get into it BUT,,Ya gotta open your eyes sometime..Now you have possibly given that person false hopes of a relationship and maybe another night with your eyes closed.. There is a guy at work that has made his News Years Resolution on getting me in bed with him..Keep telling him it will never happen..Come on now..I am a butch woman and look every bit of it..Do i need to explain..??.. Hey blueeyes have things quieted down for ya yet..??.. Wishing everyone a good week and happy chatting..

05-17-2011, 06:28 AM	#8
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	mawning Lofters hope you all have a awsome day __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

05-17-2011, 09:16 AM	#9
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	on my way to the shower.. ya know them claw skill games with the prizes inside you have to grab with it??? well silly me... thought id throw in a buck , try it out .. as i rarely ever play them things.. and .. WOW.. look what i won!! lol .. a MP3 player... now i guess i have to figure out how to work it.. lol http://www.facebook.com/#!/profile.php?id=524244677 __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

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