Single FTM's & Femme's

Joe Mario · 05-11-2011, 08:07 PM

Agreeing with the others about being OK about being single right now, but still looking.
I didn't give a lot of thought about dating after going on T. There were a fair amount of single Femmes out there a half dozen years ago, where dating wasn't an issue as much as, even say, what I was packing in my wallet to afford the social opportunities which seemed to abound.

Generally speaking, I think the Butch-Femme Community has 'setteled down', if you will, as many have found their life-partners and don't circulate as much as in years gone by.
The crying shame of it for me is that I truely feel I am at my most sexually and athletically virile, but at the same time, I'm feeling a kind of aloofness that I attribute to the T.

Although I hate to 'waste' anything, the 'I'd really like to be dating, but it's truely OK not to be for now' feeling others have expressed seems to hit the mark for me.

Queerasfck · 05-11-2011, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Joe Mario

The crying shame of it for me is that I truely feel I am at my most sexually and athletically virile.....

Although I hate to 'waste' anything....

Me too!!!!

LotusFlower · 05-11-2011, 08:27 PM

speaking of dating ...

Are there good sites out there?

morningstar55 · 05-12-2011, 04:22 AM

mawning single thread dwellers nd peekers

violaine · 05-13-2011, 09:31 AM

what is everyone up to for the weekend?

i am dog and bird sitting. the macaw can be heard for miles [naturally], and so i have to cover my ears around her and/or use ear plugs! the dogs are sweet- great dane and she sleeps with me; dobie; and rottie-mix.

hope you all enjoy yourselves and get into such much trouble!

belle

jules5041 · 05-13-2011, 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by LotusFlower

speaking of dating ...

Are there good sites out there?

I would also love to know if anyone knows any good dating sites out there. The only one I have found is Plenty Of Fish, but there do not seem to be many butches in my area. Frown. I hate that.

jules5041 · 05-13-2011, 09:39 AM

Tonight I am hanging with my best girl, Heather.

Saturday I am going to lunch and to the movies with my mom.

Saturday night I am going to see women's football. A good friend of mine is playing.

Sunday I am spending the day at home getting ready for the upcoming week.

Should be a fun weekend!!!

05-11-2011, 08:07 PM	#1
Joe Mario Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Just a guy Preferred Pronoun?: 'He' will be fine. Relationship Status: happily involved Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 57 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 55 Thanked 67 Times in 24 Posts Rep Power: 41801	Agreeing with the others about being OK about being single right now, but still looking. I didn't give a lot of thought about dating after going on T. There were a fair amount of single Femmes out there a half dozen years ago, where dating wasn't an issue as much as, even say, what I was packing in my wallet to afford the social opportunities which seemed to abound. Generally speaking, I think the Butch-Femme Community has 'setteled down', if you will, as many have found their life-partners and don't circulate as much as in years gone by. The crying shame of it for me is that I truely feel I am at my most sexually and athletically virile, but at the same time, I'm feeling a kind of aloofness that I attribute to the T. Although I hate to 'waste' anything, the 'I'd really like to be dating, but it's truely OK not to be for now' feeling others have expressed seems to hit the mark for me. __________________ Ciao, ~Joe Mario

05-11-2011, 08:27 PM	#3
LotusFlower Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Geek Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 43 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 27 Thanked 31 Times in 13 Posts Rep Power: 48900	Speaking of speaking of dating ... Are there good sites out there? __________________ Lotus Flower http://www.kanatayoga.com/x-icon.jpg

05-12-2011, 04:22 AM	#4
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	mawning single thread dwellers nd peekers __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

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05-13-2011, 09:31 AM	#5
violaine Timed Out How Do You Identify?: atypical Preferred Pronoun?: plague words and phrases Relationship Status: love wise guys of the avian world Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: wekiva springs basin Posts: 3,236 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,934 Thanked 3,293 Times in 1,301 Posts Rep Power: 0	what is everyone up to for the weekend? i am dog and bird sitting. the macaw can be heard for miles [naturally], and so i have to cover my ears around her and/or use ear plugs! the dogs are sweet- great dane and she sleeps with me; dobie; and rottie-mix. hope you all enjoy yourselves and get into such much trouble! belle

05-13-2011, 09:39 AM	#7
jules5041 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: do not disturb... Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: little rock, arkansas Posts: 226 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 280 Thanked 596 Times in 163 Posts Rep Power: 5414487	Tonight I am hanging with my best girl, Heather. Saturday I am going to lunch and to the movies with my mom. Saturday night I am going to see women's football. A good friend of mine is playing. Sunday I am spending the day at home getting ready for the upcoming week. Should be a fun weekend!!!