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 Although I must admit that turning 50 next year, has me going gray!
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07-06-2011, 08:59 PM
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I turn 50 next year too! I am coming up with a list! 1 thing I have never done or tried for each decade. So far.... 1 or 2 singing lessons, a henna tatto, ..... now I just need 3 more! Suggestions?.. must be inexpensive at this point, but who knows what a year may bring?
Right now I am craving chocolate red wine! Had some on 4th of july, incredible!!!! Glad to see this thread being bumped! Ruthie 
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07-07-2011, 09:22 PM
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Well.in Nov. I'll be 55 years young...LOL I may have found someone for my life. How ever she lives in N.J. and I'm in N.Y. Nether one of us can afor the $$$$$ for her to come up this way to visit. She seems to have a heart of gold. We talk every night after 9pm and email each other alot. I hope this works out. I told her about my family and she is very understanding. Best of all she dosen't hold how my family is agance me.By the way she will be 60 July 30 or 31.
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good morning Loft dwellers
this thread really needs some serious bumpin.. lol blue thats awsome... congrads.  Electro..... bout time you should up here.. lol Ruthie... chocolate red wine?? hmm i heard about that... havnt tried it yet... i do say yet.. lol 
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07-09-2011, 09:25 AM
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i don't know how we will get together. I can't leave and move there,I have Mom to take care of She has to have oxogen and she has heart spells. I don't mind being here for her but my sister and her worce 1/2 on the road ramming all the timne. I just can't up and leave here. The gal I'm talking about lives in N.J.. |
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07-10-2011, 08:50 AM
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morning ....... Lofters..
ahhh i see Blue .. didnt know moving anywhere was mentioned ... glad your there for your mom. have a awsome day everyone
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I wonder why this thread is not visited too often Any guesses?
Regardless, I am *gulp* in my 50's & yes it pains me to write that & I should pop in here more often myself! Happy Sunday to all!
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Hi Anya/Georgia,
I think it gets slow in here because we all have so many other interests. It's awkward to be grouped together because we're a certain number of years, especially since none of us feel our age often. I forget how old I am and remind myself I'm not a kid only when the body won't function like I know it should. |
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morning Lofter dwellers
this thread needs some bumpin...... Blue.. hope your mom is feeling better soon. having someone move .. in with someone in a short time of knowing each other is not always the best. always take time to get to know each other in person. just my 2 cents. ok howz everyones summer going so far???
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long distance romance
Well, Things didn't "work out" for this gal and me. She didn't want to move here. I told her I have a responceabilaty looking aftetr my Mom. I gave my word to my dad and my brother.
By Blueeyes 226_1 LDR could be difficult and costly. My last partner lived in California and I lived in Boston and we did the long distance for almost 2 years we visited each other every three months. Finally I moved to California and the relationship had a 7 year run after. LDR could work out but there has to be trust !! love !! and honest daily communication. Its important not to rush things, we have responsibilities in our individual lives and we can not expect to pick up and go ASAP. I have heard and seen people pick up and go ASAP and it has been a terrible mistake. Love grows when you nurture it gently and slowly, developing deep roots that will stand strong when difficult times arise.
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07-14-2011, 10:02 PM
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Thanks,I hope she gets better soon. But,she is 85 now COPD and she never smok in her life its from other people smoking around her. She has worked all her life. I dread when,she passes over.
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