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Old 07-11-2011, 08:07 AM   #1
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today 3 whole months....the 11th...imagine that wow.

I read something here then decided enough was enough and boom here i am 3 whole months later...i made the decision no one else, me,,,,

i need to grab a hold of the good stuff....

being sick has made me crabby, irritable, sad and and probably not good company....

this makes me smile...

yesterday i put a smoke out for Day....I looked at it rolled it around probably had that intense "i want to smoke" look on my face, as a comment was made...i really didn't want to smoke i just wanted to do what i did with it, roll it around and look at it....
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Woo hoo! That is grand, gaea. I don't think I could do that with a cigarette. Putting in my hands.....I don't think I could resist at this time....That " just one" would get me, thinking I could just have one more and not another...Kinda like Lay's potato chips.

I am really glad you have made it, gives me hope that I can too. Tomorrow is my 6 week mark. Doing those things that I normally smoke while doing is still hard. It is getting a little.

Keep it up gaea, to all those thinking about it and those that have succeeded for years! I love reading the successes!

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today 3 whole months....the 11th...imagine that wow.

I read something here then decided enough was enough and boom here i am 3 whole months later...i made the decision no one else, me,,,,

i need to grab a hold of the good stuff....

being sick has made me crabby, irritable, sad and and probably not good company....

this makes me smile...

yesterday i put a smoke out for Day....I looked at it rolled it around probably had that intense "i want to smoke" look on my face, as a comment was made...i really didn't want to smoke i just wanted to do what i did with it, roll it around and look at it....
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Old 07-11-2011, 05:55 PM   #3
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gaea...3 soddin' months...how cool is that? I'm dreadfully proud of you! Just the right words at the right time and look where you are now

OSB...go you...6 weeks is amazing...did you ever think you'd reach 6weeks without a ciggie? Seriously impressed!!

~There are no reasons to start smoking again, just excuses (posted as self advice......no I haven't but I soooo wanted a cig tonight)

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gaea...3 soddin' months...how cool is that? I'm dreadfully proud of you! Just the right words at the right time and look where you are now

OSB...go you...6 weeks is amazing...did you ever think you'd reach 6weeks without a ciggie? Seriously impressed!!

~There are no reasons to start smoking again, just excuses (posted as self advice......no I haven't but I soooo wanted a cig tonight)

i know right??????????

3 solid fuckin months....at this and im just stubborn enough to keep going....
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Just wanted to offer up my support for all of you trying to quit!

I quit smoking 3 years ago and it was the single best thing I have ever done for my health. I no longer wheeze or cough all the time and I definitely sleep better. (Plus, I've saved a WHOOOOOLE lot of money!)

You can DO IT!
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i know right??????????

3 solid fuckin months....at this and im just stubborn enough to keep going....
In this instance stubborn is good. Not long until the tonsils go and hopefully you'll feel better.
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i hope your right........
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Default just stititng here thinking

I do real well in the morning i don't even think about smoking...

i would say 98% of my day is spent without thinking of smoking the other 2 % well that is a given i think.....

when i do think about it my thoughts are generally ...."you have come to far to wipe out the work you have done" or "dumbass, why do you wanna smoke?" and sometimes i think "your doing well" and i just smile to myself cause no one around to see that smile or what it is about.
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