This is a tough one (regarding child maltreatment)

[Semantics]

Originally Posted by guihong

I haven't the slightest idea where to put this, but I need some advice from those wiser than I.

First, I am a teacher, and by law I must report suspected child abuse or even just hinkey feelings. Failure to do so could mean I lose my license. I have found out that this means 24/7, not just the dirty/bruised child in school that would be an easy case.

If you're worried about your license an anonymous report defeats the purpose, because according to the scenario you've outlined that doesn't cover your ass if you fear being held responsible for not reporting.

These things vary so widely by location, but I can tell you that smoking around children can be considered neglect in certain situations, such as when a child has asthma or some other condition aggravated by the smoke and the parents refuse to stop smoking around them in enclosed areas. This is rare, however.

It's hard to give an opinion without hearing the amount and the severity of the crying or arguing. Babies cry and families argue. If you feel that either constitutes neglectful behavior or potential harm to the children you should make the report.

I'm sorry. I'm a mandated reporter, as well, and these decisions can be difficult.