Being perceived as ditzy, flaky or shallow for being femme

[The_Lady_Snow]

Originally Posted by greco

"Oh, and sorry for posting here I just realized this is the femme zone. Sorry!!"

Oops! I did the same thing.

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Greco

Thanks for realizing and hoping that the Femme Zone continue to be respected and our space as well.

Anise,

I'm sorry that you are experiencing this... It's never easy when someone tries to super impose their sexism, mysoginy and stereotypes on you due to their lack of evolved thinking. I suggest you not give up your space and call them out on their assumptions of you. Take your power back and gently remind these people you are no ditzy anything... I've learned that no one can take your power or invade your space if you are clear. These people sound jerky please don't give them no mind and I hope you reading, discussing and using your Femme sister network it helps you and recharges your soul. I'm grateful and glad we have so many variations of Femme that will give you good advice, empathize and support you during times like this. I get you, and it's dismissing, don't let them though reach deep down to your Femme soul and do not give their ignorance one more minute of your thoughts.

Good luck

(((( hugs ))))