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Today I am cleaning out my *Good Clothes* closet..
I've been saving them because: 1. They are expensive and in the classic style.. 2. An ex bought them for me 3. In case I ever worked in an office where professional dress was required. I'm letting them go.. (Well, except the hand made, one of a kind sloutch jacket.. That's just art work..) I haven't worn almost any of it in five years... They don't fit my body or my soul any more.. *baby steps for letting go of the past*
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W/we just got back from visiting my parents and spending the best part of a day trying to clear up what is supposed to be my mother's utility room but what has become yet another of my father's dumping grounds. I feel so sorry for my Mom. My brother built her that room so she would have a space of her own, a place where she could store things, use her sewing machine, plant seeds etc. yet, until today, she could hardly get in it, let alone use it.
Anyway, to cut a long story short...W/we put things aside - useless things, things my father will never ever need or use - so he could approve O/our getting rid of them. Result? A huge dent in the mess. Until, that is, he got around to actually looking over what W/we planned on chucking and decided it needed to all go back so he could 'think about it' later. So okay, his family were poor, so okay, he lived through the war and rationing and all that that entailed, but come on, FOUR sets of golf clubs (he can't play any more). Two sets of bowls (he's never played). A badminton racket? Used, what, once, about 40 years ago? *Sigh* I can't begin to tell you how depressed I feel right now at the thought of my mother, at almost 80, and after spending her entire life working so hard, not being able to enjoy the fruits of her labour because of my father's reluctance to let go of crap. It's just ****ing unfair, you know? Words |
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Oh, I did get rid of something today. My fear of telling my father what I think. I held back today because I didn't want to set him off but next weekend the gloves are off. Seriously.
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Today I got rid of:
Misc lumber left overs. and a Box full of "stuff" such as two (count them two) rice cooker/steamers, water bottles, dish rack, ugly (to me) picture frames, and plastic in/out box type paper stack racks. and I moved two grocery bags full of magazines to the back room where things sit until I figure out what to do with them, and if I can't decide what to do with them, I just take them to the garbage room down the back stairs. Yippy Yahoooooo.
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I could really USE a rice cooker/steamer thingy. My second thought? I wonder what KIND of magazines. Two bags full could give me a ton of workable material for crafts! My third thought? Someone save me from myself. ![]() Although.....I really COULD use the cooker thingy.
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And the magazines? Maybe knowing that they are mostly political junkie type stuff (The Nation, Mother Jones) will make you feel better. Unless your work includes lots of depressing pictures of an imperialistic nation in decline... And yes, saaaaaaave yoooooourseeeelf!!!!!
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ALL of the wood on the porch....FINALLY
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