What TO DO in a relationship.....

girl_dee · 08-04-2011, 06:04 AM

look past the online /long distance veil

don't forget each other after the new love smell wears off.

bigbutchmistie · 08-04-2011, 07:28 AM

Always be affectionate

Always be there for her during the good times and the bad.

Always always laugh and have fun and be silly

Always treat her the same way you did to get her. It should be the way you continue to keep her...

Make sure you treat her like the lady and the Queen she is

Always never go to bed angry

clay · 08-04-2011, 05:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sassy_girl

look past the online /long distance veil

don't forget each other after the new love smell wears off.

Exactly, Ms. Sassy Girl....thanks!!!

tapu · 08-04-2011, 05:43 PM

ok, here goes:

take walks along the beach (or elsewhere) and pick up rocks that look like hearts. (there are a surprising number of them!) give them, send them, or take a cell photo of your hand holding it and send that. or save them until you have a lot.

tapu · 08-04-2011, 05:46 PM

do postcards. but not with long messages or even sentences. my ex-lover once sent me a picture postcard of Tina Turner that had written on the back:

River deep, mountain high.

That's so hot, isn't it?

girl_dee · 08-05-2011, 05:48 AM

verbalize how much you appreciate your partner, don't assume it's known and yes we like to hear it often!

leave your ex tucked away in your heart, not in each and every conversation.

girl_dee · 08-19-2011, 07:22 PM

Talk it out, and take notes!

deb_U_taunt · 08-19-2011, 08:24 PM

I am guilty of doing too much. So much so, I end up being mommie.
I come across as not needing others. but its not true.
I need to have higher expectations of others, but less of me.

08-04-2011, 05:43 PM	#4
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,116 Times in 1,104 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	ok, here goes: take walks along the beach (or elsewhere) and pick up rocks that look like hearts. (there are a surprising number of them!) give them, send them, or take a cell photo of your hand holding it and send that. or save them until you have a lot. __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

08-04-2011, 05:46 PM	#5
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,116 Times in 1,104 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	do postcards. but not with long messages or even sentences. my ex-lover once sent me a picture postcard of Tina Turner that had written on the back: River deep, mountain high. That's so hot, isn't it? __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

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08-04-2011, 06:04 AM	#1
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,829 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	look past the online /long distance veil don't forget each other after the new love smell wears off.

08-04-2011, 07:28 AM	#2
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Always be affectionate Always be there for her during the good times and the bad. Always always laugh and have fun and be silly Always treat her the same way you did to get her. It should be the way you continue to keep her... Make sure you treat her like the lady and the Queen she is Always never go to bed angry

08-05-2011, 05:48 AM	#6
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,829 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	verbalize how much you appreciate your partner, don't assume it's known and yes we like to hear it often! leave your ex tucked away in your heart, not in each and every conversation.

08-19-2011, 07:22 PM	#7
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,829 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	Talk it out, and take notes!

08-19-2011, 08:24 PM	#8
deb_U_taunt Senior Member How Do You Identify?: ........ Join Date: May 2011 Location: ....... Posts: 1,748 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,324 Thanked 5,256 Times in 1,361 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I am guilty of doing too much. So much so, I end up being mommie. I come across as not needing others. but its not true. I need to have higher expectations of others, but less of me.