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How Do You Identify?:
androgynous, gender-queer, butch Preferred Pronoun?:
depends on person addressing me Relationship Status:
merrily single hopefully married one day Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: san francisco, ca and chama, nm
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One thing that really helps me is to have an in-between place to put things.
The in-between place is a place where everything goes on its way out the door. It can sit there for one month, or even up to six months. But in this in-between place, I am free to go back into the stuff there if I actually need it. If I have not needed it, and therefore not gotten it out this in-between place, then I do not need it in my life right now (always remembering that I can always get more stuff later. So I never just throw something out, oh no, that would be very traumatic for me, too abrupt. I did that once in my life (and included all artwork and writings from my tortured youth) and I really regret that now. ![]()
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