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Old 08-29-2011, 04:01 PM   #1
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Why would we automatically presume that Madonna hates Lady Gaga for....what? For being a successful young woman? For being interesting? For being another artist that gay men are obsessed with?

Maybe Madonna is happy for Gaga. Maybe Madonna doesn't give a shit either way.
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Old 08-29-2011, 04:08 PM   #2
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Okay, I think I've figured out why the whole "I bet Madonna hates Lady Gaga!" thing irritated me so much.

It's like presuming that successful women can only become and remain successful women by clawing at the eyes of and being placed in strategic opposition to other women. Fuck that.
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Old 08-29-2011, 04:09 PM   #3
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Okay, I think I've figured out why the whole "I bet Madonna hates Lady Gaga!" thing irritated me so much.

It's like presuming that successful women can only become and remain successful women by clawing at the eyes of and being placed in strategic opposition to other women. Fuck that.
Ok, I get it. I didn't think the post was serious though. I thought it was just referencing that Lady Gaga is another talented, creative woman. Like a giving props to Gaga kind of thing.
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Oh HOLY SHIT! For once I'm sorry I missed out! What an incredible performance and BRIAN MAY?!?! HOLY SHIT!!!
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Ok, I get it. I didn't think the post was serious though.
Yeah, could be I'm just hungry. I haven't eaten today because cooking sounds like work and I can't even order a pizza because I don't want to get dressed.

(Also, Lady Gaga is not Butch. Jesus. She dressed in drag, she's not suddenly A Butch. Lordamercy!)
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Old 08-29-2011, 04:16 PM   #6
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Yeah, could be I'm just hungry. I haven't eaten today because cooking sounds like work and I can't even order a pizza because I don't want to get dressed.

Yeah, bete, quit being mean to the newb.

(Also, Lady Gaga is not Butch. Jesus. She dressed in drag, she's not suddenly A Butch. Lordamercy!)

I agree. She didn't do too bad, though....except when she went to drink the beer...less than smooth.
Maybe if you answered the door naked the food would be free?
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Old 08-29-2011, 04:24 PM   #7
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Yeah, bete, quit being mean to the newb.

I agree. She didn't do too bad, though....except when she went to drink the beer...less than smooth.

Maybe if you answered the door naked the food would be free?
I didn't know Hunter was new. Besides, I was being mean to Matthew.

Or, I was being nice to Madonna. You decide.

Also: I am not naked. Just I'm wearing Betty Boop pj bottoms and a super ratty old A-Shirt. I guess it's okay for the pizza delivery-person to see me like that.
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I didn't know Hunter was new. Besides, I was being mean to Matthew.

Oh, yeah, Matthew's comment pissed me off too (truth be told).

Or, I was being nice to Madonna. You decide.

Also: I am not naked. Just I'm wearing Betty Boop pj bottoms and a super ratty old A-Shirt. I guess it's okay for the pizza delivery-person to see me like that.

Definitely. Get extra sauce and extra cheese.
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Yeah, could be I'm just hungry. I haven't eaten today because cooking sounds like work and I can't even order a pizza because I don't want to get dressed.

(Also, Lady Gaga is not Butch. Jesus. She dressed in drag, she's not suddenly A Butch. Lordamercy!)
I know she's not Butch - but her drag performance still has me in lust
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I know she's not Butch - but her drag performance still has me in lust
I dunno. She's kinda douchebaggy in drag.
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I dunno. She's kinda douchebaggy in drag.
If you can't say something nice, get out of the thread!

(and order pizza....you grump!)
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Im not a fan but I like her better as a butch
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Why was she all hunched over? Looked like an old man. The beer wasn't very cool either
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Why would we automatically presume that Madonna hates Lady Gaga for....what? For being a successful young woman? For being interesting? For being another artist that gay men are obsessed with?

Maybe Madonna is happy for Gaga. Maybe Madonna doesn't give a shit either way.
I agree, but I do think the post was funny! (and I think was Hunter just joking around?)
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