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11-11-2011, 10:41 PM
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that sounds like a sticky situation... you do have choices... just protect yourself from getting so deep that you actually wind up not having her And getting hurt.
but it could work... and i hope it does for you... be patient and understanding. just my 4 cents...
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11-11-2011, 11:07 PM
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Since you asked...
I am trying to think of a kind way to say this: finances may not be the only reason they are together. People have all kinds of reasons for remaining together besides love.
Get on with your life. If she really cares about you, she will move out. She can get a roommate, 2 roommates, etc. If she stays anyway, at least you will be living your life. One can't live on hope. Take it from one that wasted a lot of years doing just that. I hope it works out for you.
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11-11-2011, 11:32 PM
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I am with Anya on this one but I don't have a kind way to say it really. Don't fall for someones excuse who seems like they want to have their cake and eat it to. Another lesson I learned long ago is that if someone creeps around or cheats on someone to be with you then don't for one minute think at some point they won't do it to you since they have already proven to be untrustworthy and capable.
Lastly I think it is bad karma....we reap what we sow so watch where and how you mingle with something that is taken |
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11-11-2011, 11:46 PM
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Seems like there is dishonesty going on. Caution!!!
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