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11-22-2011, 08:59 AM
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I've made choices in my life based on how I felt, my experiences and resources at THAT time in my life - they haven't always been the best of choices, yet, my life has been an adventure with the ups and downs. I've walked my own path in life - not always so sure of the way.
It's not a regret as such; more a desire that I hoped to achieve after my studies finished in London in the early 90s. I'd planned on doing a Masters degree in Textile conservation and working as a Curator of Textile restoration and preservation. "Bumps, bruises, joy and laughter. What a wonderful Tapestry it makes in life!"
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11-22-2011, 09:59 AM
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One of my biggest regrets is dabbling in drugs and alcohol when I was a teenager. At the age of 15 I had an auto accident that changed my life.
Initially I was pronounced permanently disabled from this auto accident. Joining the Marine Corp when I graduated from High School was no longer an option for me. This was my plan to begin my adult life and find a way to get my college education. I have wondered what my life would look like today if I had kept my physical ability with the belief in myself and the kindness of others. My life has turned out blessed but I know it would have been different.
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11-22-2011, 10:04 AM
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I only have one true regret. It is the one thing I can honestly say that I do not think it would affect where I am in my life at all right now, having not had this person in it. Yes, it is a person.
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11-22-2011, 10:05 AM
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One regret that stands out in my mind is not having more children. Being married to a bio man it is really a wonder i had any at all, looking back....lol.
But, knowing what i know now, i would have left that relationship way before 17 years of it and would have been artificially inseminated at least a couple of more times. I would have loved to have had a girl, but even if i had continued to have boys, i enjoyed being pregnant and i loved raising children. It is very hard for me to know i am too old to do this anymore and honestly it has been a very painful acceptance. If i had to do over, i would definitely had more children, probably had a house full. 
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11-22-2011, 01:14 PM
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Regrets... I have a few... but then again... too few to mention...
Growing old is a privilege denied to many...Never leave behind regrets... I regret the things I didn't do, it's true. I regret not saving, I regret not caring more about others, I regret not sticking to things that I was good at. I regret not walking when I was unhappy, I regret not holding my peace when it didn't matter. I regret not accepting help when I was offered to me, I regret not accepting that some things I just could not do on my own. I regret not finishing my degree, I regret that I didn't know what love was until it found me. I regret wasting my time on the unworthy. I regret not thinking about the future until it forced itself upon me. I regret so much and yet so little. I don't regret ending up the person that I now am.
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11-22-2011, 06:18 PM
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Regrets.....I have a few. Whats done is done. I'm thinkin without them though, I might not be where I am today. It has been a interesting trip though, and as I always say...Its all about the road trip.
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11-22-2011, 06:44 PM
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should of, would of, could of
ayup, I have regrets. not spending more time with my Mother, but at the age of 13, why would I been thinking she was going to pass away. Regret, not speaking up to my Dad sooner then what I had. but , i did, finally. not letting people get close to me, my heart, when I was younger ( 20's ) some others, may have been regrets at the time, but I am where i am right now because of those choices, and everything is alright. |
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01-11-2012, 10:34 PM
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Yeah.... after my dad passed away, my brother asked me to move closer to him and his girls. I regret not taking him up on his offer...I really miss them bad. After being separated from him for most our lives... I shouldn't have answered " this place is a ghost town, I can't find a job here". ...when in fact I had made a selfish decision to move some place else but should have put my family first. If I had...then I could be watching my nieces grow up now.
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11-22-2011, 06:47 PM
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Still to this day and everyday since that day I said the 2 powerful words to my mom as a young teen... "Fuck You".... She never said a word to me about it.. because she knew I would regret it till the day I die.... God Mom's are so smart!! I don't regret much at all ... Because it's the path I've chose to take there for it's not a regret.... I just regret those two powerful words. |
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11-22-2011, 07:07 PM
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Yes I do have regrets and I will probably have them for awhile, however I wil no longer let them dictate to Me who I will be in future years
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12-06-2011, 03:04 PM
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I do have some regrets but I think the biggest one that I have would be with my mom.. I regret not spending more time with her, I feel guilty that she had a stroke that caused her health to deteriorate rapidly until she passed in March, A part of me feels like if spent more time with her, i might have been able to prevent the direction her health took.. This is something that will pain me and i will think about until the day i die..
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12-09-2011, 10:38 AM
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She put a ring on it and the date is set :) 
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Most recent regret....dating a liar -sigh-
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01-11-2012, 10:17 PM
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Regret: assuming the worst, instead of hoping for the best.
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11-22-2011, 02:02 PM
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*packing up one sassy ten year old girl and shipping her off to Princessbelle ASAP. 
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11-22-2011, 02:30 PM
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Not too many. The number one is getting married to my former spouse a second time in a religious ceremony. Worst mistake I have ever made in my life and hurtful to so many people. The shame of that mistake kept me paralyzed before finally coming out and living an authentic life as a lesbian femme.
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11-22-2011, 03:15 PM
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I have a few
When I was younger, not believing in myself, settling for far less than I deserved.
Staying in a relationship that was unfulfilling, to make some one else happy. Letting other's dictate how the out come of situtations should be. Thankfully I am learning every day to try and live with no more regrets.
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11-22-2011, 03:19 PM
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not buying that damn apartment in the LES for 70K back in the day cause it was "too small." It's worth over 700K now. oy.
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Babydoll is a start.... Relationship Status:
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"Slow to trust but I'm quick to love, I push too hard and I give too much, I aint saying I'm perfect, but I promise I'm worth it" "The Good Within Me Honors The Good Within You"
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08-27-2015, 06:00 PM
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I broke the rules..
Yes,I had regrets,but don't worry..
Karma has taught me a thousand times greater that 'what goes around,comes around'. Some rules aren't meant to be broken. My debt has been Paid In Full. 
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Some days I feel like I'm still paying .*snort* 
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