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Old 12-16-2011, 01:41 PM   #1
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Being able to shed my work clothes at the end of week to put on comfy cozy home clothes .... Peaceful Pond gave me much peace during this hard week...I've had alot of healing to do lately about my mom and Peaceful Pond has helped me meditate ....
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I'm finding an unexpected peace in the unconditional love of someone specific in my lie. I think I have been taking it for granted for a while... But I am seeing things more clearly just about now...
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There have been times in the past when I had to CHOOSE Peace consciously....physically stop myself from walking a non~peaceful path and choose another direction.

Breathing deeply usually does that for me now.
Instrumentally quiet music, no lyrics, does it for me as well.
If I want to maintain that peace, I find that *I* am the Orchestrator.


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Water ~ for this Pisces ~ certainly is a peaceful thing for me (looking at Turtle's photo above!). I even have this great Rainfall sounds ap on my phone....different types of rain (on a window, in a forest, on an umbrella, etc.) and I go to sleep with that peaceful sound! Alas, there are no thunderstorms, but I make do!

The sound of water gives me peace.
Whether is the ap, the ocean, a thunderstorm, or water falling gently over stones in the Nueces River.....all is peaceful for me.


Beautifully said! I too have the rainfall app on my phone....I also have a shower or bath to find my inner balance again and go a feed the local Swans. I love thunderstorms and miss living in the tropical countries that had them often. I'm a true Pisces as well!

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There have been times in the past when I had to CHOOSE Peace consciously....physically stop myself from walking a non~peaceful path and choose another direction.

Breathing deeply usually does that for me now.
Instrumentally quiet music, no lyrics, does it for me as well.
If I want to maintain that peace, I find that *I* am the Orchestrator.


Although I haven't always choosen the most peaceful path to walk in my life, I have peace in knowing that I've grown, experienced and grapped the adventures with both hands and my heart.

Music, especially classical and Maori have always been my constant companions in which I've found my inner peace. My beautiful cats purring is another very peaceful soothing sound.
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It gives me peace to know, that I am able to provide for my furkids and I, whatever we may need today, to keep our little family together and safe.
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