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Old 01-09-2012, 11:52 PM   #1
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Pardon the typo's..typing left handed and I suck at it..ha

I am asking that the Great Spirit, elders and guides bless and direct those needed for myself.
Also asking for those on the planet to add a little energy and prayers my way at this time. For healing and so those who are caring for me to be directed as to what to do.

I was told in emergency that my clavical joint had seperated and my neck/shoulder was sprained. Also a bump in my right inner clavical bone present.

There was nothing to create this mess, I woke and it was there. And steady has gotten worse.

I was told if it is not gone or healing soon then other tests would have to be done. Possible test for clavical cancer. Hopeful it is not that but all the same, Prayers needed.

I have had cancer before so it is possible to have. But I won't jump there untill I give it healing time.

Thank you so much for your love and care on this thread to everyone.
And for your help adding to my prayers at this time.


Also sending out love and prayers to those who need it at this time myself.
May the guides bless and protect the process they are going through as well.


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Lighting candles for healing tonight, for many people dealing with different issues...

...for those facing difficult situations...
...for those who are worrying...
...for those in pain...
...for the people who get the help they need in the moment, yet still need to
pull through...
...for those who don't know what is going to happen...
...for the people who help pick up the pieces, who hold the hands, who help
carry the burden...
May we all have someone whom who we can be with who understands...
May we all feel the love and comfort in that understanding - human or
divine...
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Lighting candles for healing tonight, for many people dealing with different issues...

...for those facing difficult situations...
...for those who are worrying...
...for those in pain...
...for the people who get the help they need in the moment, yet still need to
pull through...
...for those who don't know what is going to happen...
...for the people who help pick up the pieces, who hold the hands, who help
carry the burden...
May we all have someone whom who we can be with who understands...
May we all feel the love and comfort in that understanding - human or
divine...
Blessed Be
Ditto..Echo echo echo. Thanks Turtle, this says so much. XO, Tommi

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Post Please* Healing energy, peace and calm in the eye of the storm.

Please ..keep the candles burning, and add to the flames for Peggie. Realizing we are not immortal and when we get old the candles need to be brighter.
I have gotten some great suggestions on how to handle a very difficult situation with ideas that never crossed my mind. In the middle of a storm sometimes you lose your way. I just found out the house I signed off on in 1997, is still in " our" names, and thought that was a bad thing..until someone splained it to me that if the situations gets to the point where Peggie can't make decisions and I am the Power of Attorney, that would be easier for me to deal with.

An offer to take my Ex-wife of many years in surprised me and brought me to tears today. . Move her from California to Ohio. We seperated in 1997, but have ties that bind when the pedal hits the metal. ( I quitclaimed the houe to her for $1.oo, but she never filed the papers or cashed the check). I had no idea, and had walked far away. I moved out and left it for her and Leia.

Leia, the Grandaughter we raised wants to take care of Peggie. She told me we were great parents and she would never want her Bamma to go anywhere else if she can't live alone anymore. Diagnosed with COPD and emphasema recently, and week as a kitten, on oxygen 24/7, down to skin and bones and living alone the world we lived in is disappearing for her. She called me in Sept , I rushed to the house, rushed her to the hospital where she was in ICU for several days and almost died. There is no family nearby, no friends in the neighborhood. We all live far from each other.

I was brought to tears, ~ happy tears by this adult child of ours. With two little kids of her own, her Hubby a Tech. Sgt in the Air Force, just back from his 3rd tour in Afgnanastan, just moved -re=stationed from So. Dakota to Wright Patterson, in Ohio, just reconciled they had talked it over before I ever called her.

I called to tell Leia she needed to come home and get anything out of the house she wanted beause Peggie may have to move to Oregon, with Fred (Peg's eldest son) or to assisted living of some kind for a while. She said "NO, she can't go there. Uncle Fred doesn't want her or he would have come down to get her already. Paul and I are looking into getting her here on base. """"" WOW. "We know somebody who brought their Gramma here. (HOW SWEET that kid is when I least expect it)

I never IMAGINED Peggie going there, and still can't but ..who knows! . Leia said, " I have always wanted MY Gramma to come live with us. She saved my life, you guys kept me safe, you kept my druggie Mom away from me. Paul and the kids love her and we need her too. Tell her for me. I'll take really good care of her. I promise RayRay""""

I smiled big ....sniff

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Every now and then we all need a beacon,
For Tommi and Peggie the ties that bind remain strong and faith lights your way.


Lady Pamela, Healing and answers


For Turtle who keeps the light alive


For my friend.....
you will never know how I still value and hold you close in thought.
Loves healing light to surround you.

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I want to triplicate the ditto on the beautiful words and candles, TURTLE! & Tommi

[COLOR="blue" ((((((((((((((LADY PAMELA))))))))))))))
Special healing, loving, caring thoughts go out to you! May the tests, if done, be negative for anything cancerous, and may the team who provides care for you be skilled, healing, and do an awesome job to repair the damaged areas, and make you whole again...this world needs kind and beautifully loving spirits such as you....YOU are NEEDED, Lady! Get thyself well....sending energies and healing white light to you....love you..Clay
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[COLOR="blue"]TOMMI & Peggi......may healing energies, warm white lights of calmness, and all the things needed to help Peggi transition to wherever she will go be sent to you both. May the forces of strength and power be yours as you deal with this...all things happen for a reason and sometimes we may not see those powerful reasons til many years later...as you are now seeing...life is a strange mystery, isn;t it.
Loving energies to Leia and her family and Peggi is truly blessed to have her, as are you...this story moves me beyong tears, makes my heart all warm & fuzzy...there are angels among us...I know I was sent my very own too...and I for one am eternally grateful for those[ who just DO...instead of talk...YOU are all amazing and HEROES in my Book!!! I heart all of you..and Turtle YOU, my friend are an amazingly gentle, kind spirit and I am happy to call you my friend, also..
OK I am getting misty eyed...bless each and everyone of us all today and everyday...Clay (AKA Mush Heart)/COLOR]
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