LGBTIQ Children

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My 21 year old son is either gay or bisexual. He and his boyfriend both live with me. I don't really worry too much about him because of his sexuality, but he is 'the butch' in the relationship. His boyfriend is so infeminate (spelling) that is almost like having another girl in the house. I consult him with all my fashion questions and he helps me cook and clean :-)
I do worry about my 14 year old son. He may not be gay, but he is also infeminate (sp?) and I worry about him if it turns out that he is gay because the more girlie guys are the ones that end up being beaten and have a rough road. I don't wan't to assume my 14 year old is gay, but there are such strong signs that is. My middle son is all about the ladies. LOL...he often talked with me and says things like, 'we're the only ones in the house that like girls'
Even though I am openly gay, and was married to a woman at the time, my 21 year old hid his sexuality from us. We found out the hard way...by finding pics he had sent to other guys.
When he was younger, he was embarrassed that I was a lesbian. If we went through a drive-thru he would cover the rainbow sticker I had in my van. LOL. Now he wears a rainbow bracelet.
His father isn't very accepting of him being gay. That bothers me.