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1. Have lived in and around Metro Atlanta all 42 years of my life.
2. July of this year will mark my 20 year anniversary at my work place. 3. Back when I was 22 I had an application in for a Police job and one in for a Mechanics job. The mechanics one called me back first - so that's where I am still today (different job, same company) 4. Never went to college 5. Didn't think I'd make it past 25 so why worry about college? 6. I am bipolar. 7. I take my meds religiously even if there are times I don't think I have to. 8. I can be extremely obsessive. To the point where I can eat the exact same breakfast for a year without getting tired of it. 9. The past couple of years I've read more than any other time in my life aside those crucial teenage years. I'm completely loving my rediscovery of books. 10. I've been writing stories since I was somewhere between 5 and 7. 11. My first story was about a dolphin - it was 6 of those big dotted line in the middle of every line kindergarten pages long. 12. Due to gay bashing incidents in my past - I insist on driving fast and reliable car. 13. Also due to the above I don't trust "packs" of high school / college age guys. 14. I am torn between wanting to pass as a guy - and being proud of what I've achieved as a female bodied person in a very male world, and wanting to be recognized for that. 15. One of the first things I did when I came out as gay (and butch at the same time) was find a mentor. She taught me a lot about our history, where to go, where not to go, everything... I'll never forget our evenings of "black and tans" after work. 16. Songs carry strong imprints from my life. 17. My dad is a drug addict and it destroyed my teenage life. I have huge issues with people who use drugs - I typically avoid them at all costs. 18. I actually love vegetables so when I get my head outta my ass and decide to eat right - I usually don't have a hard time finding stuff I like to eat. 19. I was 35 before I had my first cavity. After that though - they all started racing towards crowns & root canals. 20. I had my gall bladder removed when I was 20. After being misdiagnosed for over a year and almost dying... 21. I usually like these types of posts - but this one is hurting my brain. 22. I buy myself car parts for weight loss goals. When I reach my "final" goal this time - I'm buying a cold air intake system... Yay!! 23. I drive 500 miles a week going to and from work. (2 hours a day) 24. When a video stalls online - it bothers me more than nails on chalkboards. 25. I have owned a wide variety of exotic and domestic pets - and I have finally come to the conclusion that I really love and bond fantastically with cats. |
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Colors, Nature, Decor
1.My favorite color is purple 2.My real life name is the purple flower of england 3.My middle name spans back a few hundred years in the family documented 4.I have always been around dog's or had /have them 5.I had a cockatiel "rudy" lived with me ten years, his favorite dinner was chicken 6.My living room is decorated in earth tones 7.My Kitchen is decorated with ocean colors 8.My bathroom is celestial 9. My bedroom is in purples 10.My favorite flower the carnation 11.I love camping 12.i love fishing 13. I love hiking and nature trails 14. I love spring and summer 15. I am mesmerized by the sheer beauty of the ocean 16. I love taking pics of nature 17. I love sunrises and sunsets 18. The last time i played in the rain i was 14. 19. I jumped off a bridge into the river at 15 (dumb) 20. winter gives me cabin fever 21. I wear dark colors on my nails 22. My makeup enhances my skin naturally 23. My closet is organized by style and color 24. I make my bed daily 25. Pictures of my kids and grandbabies cover my living room walls. Framed Olivia art decorates my bedroom walls.
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1) I was born and raised in Southern Idaho, lived in several other places along the way, and have currently spent the past 20+ years in Oregon.
2) I like most colors on the spectrum but seriously love the colors: Hot Pink, Baby Blue, Forest Green, and neon shades of Blue & Violet shades of purple. 3) I have earned two formal education degrees since I was 43 (BS - Human Communication, Sociology (double major); MA - Communication Studies) and will earn a doctorate in Sociology over the next three to four years. 4) I like working in highly social, public venues. 5) I like BMWs (cars, trucks, motorcycles). 6) I like to ride bicycles. 7) I seriously love trampolines! 8) I'm fussy about bras, shoes, dresses, people, and particular foods. 9) I like Spring, Summer and Winter but the season I like most is Fall. 10) The relentless side of me is tempered by healthy doses of sudden slowness, procrastination or writer's block. 11) I love music of all types but mostly I trend toward types of: Jazz, Blues, Classical, Soul, Classic Rock, R&B (Hip Hop, Trip Hop, DubStep, and all kinds of other artistic expressions of music). 12) I have a foot, rope, and snake fetish. 13) no. 13 is my lucky number. 14) I study Identity in psycho-social ways. 15) I love math of any kind (algebra, geometry, calculus, physics, statistics, string theory). 16) I share an affinity for poetic works by: Chezlaw Milosz, Anne Sexton, Sylvia Plath, Edgar Allen Poe, and other random poets who are not so well known in Western society. 17) I have an acute sense of race, power and privilege. 18) I don't know everything I'm okay with that. I'm a very curious individual and my curiosity sometimes gets me into trouble. 19) I work on keeping my ego properly leashed at all times; but since I'm human, there are times when I am tempted to let my ego off the chain. 20) I seriously love the Righteous Brothers' song: Unchained Melody. 21) I like films, movies, documentaries. 22) I prefer non-fiction accounts and limit fictional accounts in my reading repertoire. 23) I have serious baggage (issues) with the institution of Marriage. 24) 24 is also a lucky number for me (my day of birth). 25) Sunday is my favorite day of the week. ![]() |
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1. I’m a twin.
2. I was raised by my Maori Grandmother and French Italian Grandfather (maternal Grandparents). 3. I’m left handed, but use scissors right handed (there weren’t any left handed scissors when I was growing up, lol). 4. I see a world full of beauty, even if it appears ugly to others. I’m flawed and talented; face my fears (eventually) and I’m ever evolving as a person. I understand the journey through life has its ups and downs and I love deeply, laugh often and take delight in simplicity. 5. I can be a force of nature; sometimes powerful, determined and unstoppable; at other times I’m soft, gentle, sensitive and quiet. 6. I’m annoyingly cheerful and irritatingly optimistic. 7. I have a lot of self-determination and when I focus my attentions on doing something, I will see it through to the end. 8. I wear my heart on my sleeve; my face will show how I’m feeling….I’ve never been able to hide my feelings. 9. I’m not jealous by nature and go by the motto; live and let live. 10. I’m very blunt without meaning to be hurtful; I just say how I feel. 11. I’m multi-lingual and have dual-nationality; I consider myself a New Zealander. 12. I’m fairly self-sufficient and resourceful, especially DIY; making my own clothes and beauty products. 13. I’m loyal, loving and supportive to a fault. 14. I’ve been tested for Meningitis twice in my life (ages 7 and 22). 15. I shower twice a day. 16. My hair takes 30 minutes to wash and condition because it’s so long (wash it twice a week). 17. I have a mischievous, playful streak and enjoy intelligent conversations and witty repartee. 18. I’m very intuitive and also a contradiction. 19. I have over 500 CDs and nearly 4,000 downloaded songs; I prefer music to watching TV. 20. I respect and appreciate others perspectives, even if I don’t agree with them; I will defend your right to say them. I accept people for who they are. 21. When I was pregnant with my late daughter; I believed I had indigestion only I was in labour. 22. I’m painfully polite (apparently). 23. I prefer going barefoot whenever possible. 24. Animals and Children know I’m a softie. 25. I have excellent hearing; I don’t give a flying Fruit Bats bum what you say about me, just don’t deny you’ve said, because I heard you! Phew! I'm thankful it wasn't 50 things! LOL! Off to read what everyone else has put now....
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1. i'm a quirky bitch
2. i have the need to smell anything and everything, gross or otherwise 3. i talk to myself a LOT 4. i miss my kids beyond belief 5. i'm a cat person 6. i drive a 10 year old beetle that i LOVE 7. i bite my nails when nervous 8. fav color is purple 9. LOVE LOVE LOVE hello kitty 10. i wanna go to a BFP reunion but am too shy and would be skeered to death (#7 kicks in here) 11. i'm half cherokee and irish 12. my brother is my hero 13. i miss my mom (we are estranged at the moment) 14. i feel all alone in the world 15. i can whistle really loud (it's how i called my kids to dinner when they were out playing in the neighborhood) 16. i loved living in los angeles back in the 90s 17. my eyes are really really green 18. i remember how my heart and stomach felt the first time i laid eyes on a butch 19. i feel very alone most of the time despite great friends and family 20. i will adopt, NOT shop, when i get another animal 21. i love love love hot and sour soup 22. i cry every time i visit my grandma....she has no idea who i am 23. i am loving living in FL 24. i am a serious photog 25. i am thankful for bfp |
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1. I am an introvert but can fake being an extrovert in social situations.
2. I read Gone With the Wind in less than a week at age 10. 3. My bedtime was 7:30PM until I was 13, then I was allowed to stay up until 8:30. 4. I still cry over the death of my Bishon Frise, Baby (she died on April 19th, 2011) whenever I think of her or see another Bishon. 5. I love to do laundry and fold clothes & towels but despise ironing. I tend to buy no-wrinkle clothing as a result. 6. I used to iron my hair on the ironing board as a teenager or set it on one gigantic orange juice can on the top of my head, to make it come out straight. 7. When I was 16, the car I was in was hit by another and we rolled over 3 times. We were not hurt because there were 3 of us (one big guy, too) in the front bench seat-we packed each other in. 8. I elevated masturbation to an art-form during all the years I had been single. I firmly believe that if you don't use it- you lose "it". 9. I lost track of my best friend during my hermit years and have been unable to track her down since then. We became lovers in our early 20's, then back to best friends. The last time we spoke, she was madly in love with a lesbian wheelchair basketball player in Eugene, OR. 10. I pride myself on my total trustworthiness and never breaking a confidence-ever. People tell me I am easy to talk to, tell me personal things and then worry I will repeat them. I never do. 11. I never swear in front of people that don't know me but actually swear like a sailor, especially with idiot CA drivers- I just don't do it where they can see as I would rather not get shot. 12. I love zombie and apocalyptic, end-of-the-world movies and books, can't tell you why but I hate bloody, slasher movies. 13. I want to go to a gun range and learn to shoot guns. (See #12, apocalypse). 14. I am extremely empathetic, sensitive and cry easily. It is frequently a drag. 15. I loved Nancy Drew, had all the books and recently gave them to my 7-year-old granddaughter. 16. I love the beach and my dream is to someday live where I can always see and smell the ocean. 17. My favorite comedy is The Big Bang Theory. It cracks me up. 18. My favorite shoes are my Merrells. I have them in navy, taupe, black and white. I may be femme but hate to wear heels or panty hose. 19. I love staying in nice hotels. 20. I hate camping. 21. The Planet helped me get back into life again. I am grateful for that. 22. I do have a prickly, OCD side that I do not like. It gets in the way of my being mellow (which is my goal). 23. When I was 10, I won a watermelon eating contest for eating watermelon the fastest. I was crowned queen by Miss New Jersey. The picture was in Life Magazine. I won a doll. The king got a bike. I wanted the bike, not the damn doll. 24. I love to dance and want to do it again. I miss partner dancing more than just about anything, though I still dance by myself in my living room. 25. I have run out of semi-interesting things about myself so will stop here.
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1. I can smell ants.
2. I get migraines at the drop of a hat. Really, I think you could drop a hat and I’d get a migraine. 3. I brew my own beer. 4. I rarely drink. Even half a beer can give me a migraine. 5. I was born in Atlanta, and have never lived anywhere else….though I considered it, after the Olympics came through and changed the feel of the city. 6. I like to iron. And before you offer, that doesn’t mean I’d like to iron your clothes. 7. The first concert I ever saw was Elvis Presley. I was ten. I could feel the electricity and the crazed excitement in the air, and knew even then it was one of those “I was there” life events. 8. The first time I made out with a girl was in the parking lot of the Rocky Horror Picture Show. 9. I have a fear of sunflowers. They creep me the hell out. I’ve been known to cross the street so I don’t walk next to them, or ask for different seating in a restaurant that has sunflower art too close to my table. 10. I spent my twenties playing bass guitar in rock bands and playing to crowds anywhere between 6 people and 12,000 (more frequently closer to 6 than 12,000). 11. I have severe hearing loss. I’ve always had it, but sometimes I tell overly-inquisitive people it’s from my ‘rock star’ past so I don’t have to explain it further. 12. I wrote a weekly astrology column for a queer Atlanta-based magazine for seven years. My pen name was Ava Voorhis. 13. I used to call myself a jack of all trades, a master of none…but now I’ve got two master’s degrees. Fuck it, I’m still a jack of all trades. 14. I want to learn to cut a perfect dovetail joint. 15. I detested Chihuahuas until my parents gave me one. His name is Killer. He lets me subject him to the latest Internet memes, and I adore him for it. 16. Romantic comedies and chick flicks are my favorite movie genres. I cried the first time I saw Ghost (okay, and the second time too). 17. I can’t fall asleep if my fingernails are touching any cloth. 18. I’m a cheerful scientist. It's better than being mad. 19. Iceland is my favorite place on earth. Seriously. I went there two years ago and still dream about it. 20. I started getting insomnia about three years ago. I had no idea how bad it sucks, and hereby apologize to all the insomniacs I’ve ever dismissed as whiners. 21. My first car was an AMC Pacer. Wayne’s world! Wayne’s world! 22. I buy groceries from Costco. I currently have six pounds of pre-cooked bacon, 24 cans of tomato bisque soup and a case of dried hashbrowns. 23. I would like to get a fish pedicure before they are outlawed in all 50 states. 24. I read three or four books at the same time. It makes me an even slower reader than I already am. 25. I hate the smell of baked cinnamon. And ants.
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I want to know what ants smell like and I also want to get one of those fishy pedicures. I bet it tickles.
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1. My name is made up, the creation of two people who didnt want the traditional spelling.
2. I have learned that the people who should give you unconditional love, don't. 3. I have learned that the people who don't have to, do so unconditionally, and whole heartly. 4. My children, Cory and Kimberly, amaze me every day, they are so different and so beautiful. 5. I love being a mom, and I love it even more when they call me mommy by accident. Sometimes I wish they were a little more dependant on me. 6. I love driving, I do it too much. 7. I have to learn to forgive myself more. 8. I write lists. Lists for everything. So I can check them off and feel like I have accomplished something. 9. I am always either late or seriousily early. Most often early because I am embarrassed about being late. 10. I sing the loudest when I am alone and I don't think anyone can hear, either way I am always singing. I'm told I sing well, I think Im okay at best. 11. I am anal about spelling and grammer. Obsessively so sometimes. 12. I talk too much when I shouldn't, and not enough when I should. 13. I am the oldest neice, granddaughter in my family. I am finally an auntie! 14. I have 3 brothers and 2 sisters, and I also have a brother and sister I have adopted as my siblings. 15. I love the person I have become, and I am pretty close to the person I want to be. 16. I am too hard on myself about my handwritting. In school I would often not hand something in and take a zero, because I didn't feel it was written neatly enough. Can you say OCD? 17. I still think about 2 of my teachers from elementary school, and miss them. I always felt they believed in me, even when I didn't believe in myself. 18. I cry in sappy movies, even if I have seen them before. I love horror movies, but I cant watch them alone, the fear doesnt leave when Im alone. 19. I was homeless more than once, before I had children. My parents divorced and I was the one they fought about not taking, there for I have fended for myself since 12 years old. 20. I dont know how to accept when people do nice things for me. I need to feel there is a balance, so i try to give more than I receive. Being spoiled makes me feel vulnerable. I am the one who buys gifts for people, and just leaves them to be found nameless. ![]() 21. I love to cook, bake and try new recipies. I am a perfectionist in my presentation, or I am too embarrassed to serve it. I have run my own catering business off and on for nearly 20 years. 22. I have a bucket list, it keeps growing, and shrinking on a regular basis. 23. I am not scared of dying. I am scared of not being done what I want to do, when it is time to go. 24. I am unrealistically terrified of leeches, and bloodsuckers. I think spiders and snakes are amazing. 25. I seriousily check my lottery tickets like I really might have won, and feel a little sad when I don't, for just a moment.. |
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