Dumbest Thing You Did To Impress Someone?

1QuirkyKiwi · 02-23-2012, 08:26 AM

I was 14 when a new family moved into the next street where my friend lived. One of the kids I thought was gorgeous, so we invited them both to play.

Sooo, there’s me attempting to chat up the one I had the hots for when, it turns out she was in fact a very feminine looking boy!

Needless to say, I felt sick, was so disappointed and embarrassed that I ran home in tears.

Since them, I’ve never tried to impress anyone; take me as you find me, lol!

Cuddles · 02-23-2012, 09:33 AM

Lol, it's great to see I'm not alone in doing silly things too!

Turtle · 02-23-2012, 10:19 AM

There was a new girl in class in fourth grade. I was walking her to the office and ran backwards to show off, tripped, fell, sprained my wrist. Not so cool looking

chai~ · 02-24-2012, 01:55 AM

I tried to be butch, or at least andro. I use the term very loosely!!!

The women I was hanging out with all poo pooed my long hair and nails, nail polish, lipstick, jewlery, heels...my femme~ness.

I wasn't a "real" lesbian to them.

In their opinioin, I was sitting on the fence so that I could slip back into the het world if I got scared.

I let the pressure get the better of me eventually.

I cut 12 inches of hair off, scrubbed my face clean, cut my nails off.....you don't want me to go into the painful details do you?

I was miserable of course. I withdrew inside myself, but tried to behave "like one of the guys."

I spent less and less time with these women in the following weeks, until I completely disappeared from the group.
No one ever called to check on me, which was fine, because my hair was growing out again, and they wouldn't approve!

I went back to my wicked femme ways and have never attempted to be someone else since. I learned that lesson pretty damn quick!

msW8ing · 02-24-2012, 02:16 AM

Back in my 30's when i had more money then common sense...was deeply infatuated with a hawt dyke that was a friend for a lil over a year..."borrowed" Hys truck while Hy was at work..recruited my cousin and his friends..put a 4" lift kit, big ol mudding tires, KC lights and roll bar on it. (Hy talked about doing that for a year when Hy had enough saved up)Put a big ol bow on it...Happy Birthday...umm yeah it impressed Hym..we dated all about a month before it went sour..not only cost me a ton of cash..but also a friendship. Learned my lesson i did.

02-23-2012, 08:26 AM	#1
1QuirkyKiwi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: BBW. Unique femininity that does not encompass the western paradigm. Preferred Pronoun?: Anything Respectful! Relationship Status: Single, Happy, not Desparate or Looking, but Open to Possibilities... Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Europe and Aotearoa on a 5:2 ratio. Posts: 2,308 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,003 Thanked 6,035 Times in 1,617 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I was 14 when a new family moved into the next street where my friend lived. One of the kids I thought was gorgeous, so we invited them both to play. Sooo, there’s me attempting to chat up the one I had the hots for when, it turns out she was in fact a *very feminine looking boy!* Needless to say, I felt sick, was so disappointed and embarrassed that I ran home in tears. Since them, I’ve never tried to impress anyone; take me as you find me, lol! __________________ What will make the difference to me is your strength of character and what's in your heart...

02-24-2012, 02:16 AM	#5
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,497 Times in 654 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Back in my 30's when i had more money then common sense...was deeply infatuated with a hawt dyke that was a friend for a lil over a year..."borrowed" Hys truck while Hy was at work..recruited my cousin and his friends..put a 4" lift kit, big ol mudding tires, KC lights and roll bar on it. (Hy talked about doing that for a year when Hy had enough saved up)Put a big ol bow on it...Happy Birthday...umm yeah it impressed Hym..we dated all about a month before it went sour..not only cost me a ton of cash..but also a friendship. Learned my lesson i did. __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Email this Page
Display Modes
Switch to Linear Mode Hybrid Mode Switch to Threaded Mode

02-23-2012, 09:33 AM	#2
Cuddles Junior Member How Do You Identify?: A romantic butch who loves to cuddle... and steal your french fry when you're not looking! Preferred Pronoun?: No preference. Relationship Status: Single, always looking to mingle and maybe be tamed one day Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Northern Florida Posts: 61 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 117 Thanked 191 Times in 36 Posts Rep Power: 1805812	Lol, it's great to see I'm not alone in doing silly things too!

02-23-2012, 10:19 AM	#3
Turtle Senior Member How Do You Identify?: A mixity Preferred Pronoun?: whatever Relationship Status: chillin Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: in a really really cute little place Posts: 2,144 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,442 Thanked 4,528 Times in 1,219 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	There was a new girl in class in fourth grade. I was walking her to the office and ran backwards to show off, tripped, fell, sprained my wrist. Not so cool looking

02-24-2012, 01:55 AM	#4
chai~ Member How Do You Identify?: Self possessed Aquarian Preferred Pronoun?: Don't call me baby~ Relationship Status: Deliciously single and loving it. Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: lotus land Posts: 1,173 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,937 Thanked 3,381 Times in 864 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I tried to be butch, or at least andro. I use the term very loosely!!! The women I was hanging out with all poo pooed my long hair and nails, nail polish, lipstick, jewlery, heels...my femme~ness. I wasn't a "real" lesbian to them. In their opinioin, I was sitting on the fence so that I could slip back into the het world if I got scared. I let the pressure get the better of me eventually. I cut 12 inches of hair off, scrubbed my face clean, cut my nails off.....you don't want me to go into the painful details do you? I was miserable of course. I withdrew inside myself, but tried to behave "like one of the guys." I spent less and less time with these women in the following weeks, until I completely disappeared from the group. No one ever called to check on me, which was fine, because my hair was growing out again, and they wouldn't approve! I went back to my wicked femme ways and have never attempted to be someone else since. I learned that lesson pretty damn quick!