What was it about your lover...

[stargazingboi]

It really is hard to describe ...laws of attraction. Over the years I have learned many things…I pay attention to what is happening within and I listen.

If you took two magnets and held them close to each other, but did not allow them to touch, you would feel a pull. You would feel an unwavering, uncontrollable need to connect, touch and become one. It is their design, the makeup of magnets, they must connect…and to deny it is to stop its purpose for being, its nature.

Well, that’s what I felt, I was pulled to her; I was drawn to her without any rhyme or reason. No matter how much I tried to break it down logically I could not. I was not looking for love; love was actually the last thing on my mind at the time.

The day we first met, I felt a world wind of emotions…and had no idea why, I had never been nervous like this before, but when I caught a glimpse of her eyes I knew. Somehow, I knew her…I had a true feeling of knowing and loving her before.

When I am upset she soothes me ...at times with just a single look. With a touch I am ignited with desire, comfort, and joy. An energy flows between us no matter how close or how far we are from each other… an energy is shared. We can feel each other’s shifts and moods…we may not know exactly what is happening with the other but we can feel it, and we are drawn to check in with each other when we feel these shifts.

I felt comfortable enough to open up about stories I kept locked within, I trusted her from the very first moment. I could and still can talk with her about anything…I can joke around and be silly or I can talk about the depths of my being, without judgment. She just gets me.

It is unexplainable; I struggle to put it into words. I feel at a loss really even as I write, words cannot do it justice. So, the best way I can describe it is I am home, I am where I belong.

[Silverseastar]

The deep loves I have experienced have had a few things in common: strong almost magnetic energy connection that kept us always touching, long conversations that covered everything from ideas to beliefs, compatible values, similar life goals, a sense of humour, a sense of adventure, a passion for something beyond ourselves- community, family, etc..., and a feeling of trust and safety which created a further intimacy.

I must admit I am straying away from the emotional poetic components I would usually express more eloquently as my heart aches a little still from dating someone recently, feeling these things so profoundly, and them ending up having PTSD and then watching it all fall away.

It makes my heart glad to know that others can have and sustain these sorts of beautiful love connections and hope some day to have my own great romance again. I believe in it's value. In fact I have a tattoo on my upper arm of a woman offering up her heart with a crown of stars on her head. It's my reminder to always stay connected to my spiritual self as open hearted and willing to give my love (in all contexts) even when it's hard.

[starryeyes]

At first, her eyes. They are a striking blue and look right into your soul (seriously) I had never met someone with such striking eyes! Then it was her mannerisims. She has treated me like no one ever has treated me in my life. She makes me feel like the most beautiful, cared for, adores femme in the world. She does anything for me, including talking to me at 3am on my way to work last night to make sure I am safe. Her love is bountiful and I am so proud and honored to call her my loverdaddywomanbutch for the rest of our lives

[apretty]

E had years of therapy before I even met him and thus, emotional health and amazing boundaries which I admire, still.

Salt and Pepper pompadour, black rimmed eyeglasses, sweater vest and tie, grey J Crew dress pants and he brought me some artisan chocolates when we met.

On that first date, E never wavered from being appropriate and respectful while steadfastly determined to get me in a roadside motel.

[Medusa]

She made me laugh until I peed and drooled while ogling me.

Then she sent me a colon cleansing kit as a love gift. *instant amour!*

[Miss_J]

That is absolute hilarity and amazing connection!

[Quintease]

I'd love to contribute to this but he's annoyed me today.

He always say's 'But would you change me?' and I always reply with 'No, but there's bits of you I could happily live without.'

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by DeviantDaddy

We both feel a very primitive draw to one another. Nothing mundane or civilized about it, it is buried deep within us. Society has done an excellent job of taming the very primitive nature of man and woman yet she awakens the animal within me. And it calls to the lioness within her. It is very powerful, intense and raw.

She is my kitten, my slut, my babygirl, my pet, my partner, my woman... my mate.

Love this!!!

[Novelafemme]

...the way she raises one eyebrow when discussing something complex. her black prada glasses and her hazel eyes. she has impeccable style and walks with such confidence, yet is the most humble person i know.

like apretty said, years of therapy and self-work resulted in her knowing how to communicate and assert who she is when need be. and the j crew pants don't hurt one bit.

we just fit. instantly. there was no second guessing or fear. have we had our "moments"...of course! but ultimately it was written for us. we simply had to follow the notes.

[Inked_Trinity]

She is so open and honest! She has a wonderful sarcastic wit!

[DaddysKitten]

I remember late night talks with him, completely chaste before, any sort of 'acknowledged chemistry' began. He was so traditional, much like I am, and our beliefs seem too old to the world, that I had decided long before this that I would either have to settle, or be alone. And settling was indeed out of the question.

Without even knowing it, we had solidified a basis for our future relationship with those late night talks that left me curled in bed, just so overjoyed that someone out there still saw things the way I did. Ways that so many had forgotten, or even now see as, male chauvinistic.

I loved those old ideas of being a stay at home housewife, barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen. Waiting til he came home, with dinner prepared, and ready to serve his every need and whim, contently. Thanking him in even the simplest ways for providing for his family.

And then our relationship moved to another level, and everything just felt so natural, so very natural. We slipped into a Daddy/babygirl relationship without it ever even being something either of has had considered before. Our D/s dynamic had been set in stone before the idea of 'dating' even came to our minds.

I think it was much like before the internet, when you just really spent the time to get to know someone, before hopping into discussions of expectations on an intimate level. We just... happened.

And then, time grew on, and his touch. I remember the electrification of the simplest thing, even a brush of his fingers to my cheek. I remember being so breathless after our first simple kiss. And again, everything, from sitting around talking for hours just snuggling, to the darker sides of our intimate life together.

Intelligent, pride, confidence, sex appeal, kindness, tenderness. All things I saw and embraced about him. Finally the man I had dreamt of since I was a young girl, had come gone from a dream to becoming reality. And here we are.

In love, planning our future, both of us had so many walls up, and they have all come crumbling down, leaving us raw, vulnerable, and so in love.

I love him, more than words can describe. Even the word 'love' seems almost generic in comparison to what I truly feel.

I worship you, Daddy. Always... and forever.

[MsTinkerbelly]

I have loved before, and some I love still...but when all is said and done, my Kasey is the one I don't want to live without. THAT is how I know she is the one.

[DeviantDaddy]

Originally Posted by DaddysKitten

I worship you, Daddy. Always... and forever.

I love you, kitten. Plan on replying to this when I have the appropriate amount of time... smiles.


Thank you everyone for posting! It has been wonderful to read your sappiness... grins.