Where do I fit in?

[Ginger]

Oh Laruss, I feel for you. It sucks to feel on the outside, not fitting in, judged unfairly.

If it's any consolation, I think most people feel that way at some point in their lives.

Take me, for example (you know that was coming, right? LOL) I often feel like I don't fit into various GLBT communities, though I adore and totally crush on big butch dykes.

Maybe you're like me, in that you'll always have a small but significant group of friends, and your connections with people will be based on elusive stuff that isn't visible at first, like your values, aesthetics, interests—not that sexual preference isn't a valid, heart-based common ground for community and friendship.

So hang in there, be yourself, and let your energy find other energy like it. You'll be just fine.

[Medusa]

Laruss!

You are exactly ok just the way you are and whatever way you have a relationship or have sex and whoever you choose to do it with of any gender is perfect just the way you choose it.

xo