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03-24-2012, 05:58 PM
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That what people say is never as important as what they do....watch their actions and priorities, and they will show you who they truly are better than their words ever will.
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03-24-2012, 06:17 PM
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What I learned from Relationship...
I learned that I have a fearless heart and no matter how may times it gets torn apart I can mend it and open it again eventually. Actions speak louder than words. I learned to back up and look a situation objectively and not take everything personally. I learned to set my boundries within my relationships and still be sensitive to my partners needs. I learned to fight fair and never hit below the belt. Somethings you say just can't be taken back. I learned that it's OK to say..." I'll get back to you on that" giving you time to process. I learned It's very important to make time and stay present with you partner without distractions especially if she needs to vent. I learned not to solve her problems and just really listen to her, sometimes that's all she needs.
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03-24-2012, 06:21 PM
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03-24-2012, 06:28 PM
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when someone shows you who they are, believe them!!!
communicate----communicate----communicate you don't have to have everything in common, but it certainly helps to have some things respect each others differences and make compromises above all, NEVER lose sight of who YOU are to try and keep someone....be true to yourself!!! |
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03-24-2012, 06:50 PM
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My lessons.
I thought that the happily ever after dream wasn't what Disney portrayed.
Sometimes the very best thing you can do for someone, is walk away for their own good. Being in a great and healthy relationship, does not mean everything is always perfect. That I am capable and strong enough to truly forgive. That I can love deeply and can truly love with no reservations. Love does not go hand in hand with happiness. Sharing everything should be done slowly and carefully. That if you ever find yourself thinking... "she can change".. then you are likely better off ending it. That although happily ever after isn't Disney's portrayal, it can still happen
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