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04-14-2012, 06:18 PM
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Thank you for this wonderful, inclusive Stone thread. There are so many awesome posts here. I did post earlier in the thread, so not much to add at this time but thank you again to everyone.
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04-14-2012, 06:29 PM
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I haven't seen this thread in a awhile, but reading through some of the posts here, made me proud to be a member of this site. There really are some great folks here, who are genuinely interested in open discussion, and allowing others to freely be themselves without judgement or an attempt to cram others into a preformed ID box that is not of their own personal design. I am subscribing.
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04-14-2012, 06:55 PM
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Count me in. Just another refugee from that crazy 'House'.
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05-21-2012, 05:41 PM
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just read through this thread
Ok i get the Stone thing for Butches and Femmes..I never thought of myself as Stone but after reading i can find a place there..I do like to be the agressor in the bedroom or Top..After doing what i do in the heat of passion i do need a little touch to take the edge off things..Give me 6 seconds then my attention goes back to my partner..I dont want to get to personal with my info..There are also places i prefer not to be touched,rubbed,grabbed or whatever..Guess that is the Stone part..
I do have a question.. I here Pillow Princess being mentioned a few times..My "X" was described as being that..When it was time for the bedroom activites she would lay naked on her back in bed with her arms over her head and legs wide open..{sorry to detailed?}..Wow!!..I loved that and killer body to go with it..She would keep her arms raised during sex and never heald on to me or any kind of interaction..She responded very well but no tender touches or nothing.. My question is :: Is that the definition of a "Pillow Princess"..???.. wondering..??..
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05-21-2012, 06:00 PM
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It is, however, not how a stone femme behaves--or personally how I behave. While I respect a stone butches boundaries, I also have my own and choose not to touch where they don't wish to touch. However, there is a world of response, touch, and affection that I can give within those mutual boundaries. People don't understand the stone dynamic. I have been asked if I were a Princess when someone finds out I'm stone. Not the same thing at all. |
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05-21-2012, 06:08 PM
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Can one be a Stone Princess..???..
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05-21-2012, 06:54 PM
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It sounds more like a woman who has a suffered some sexual trauma in the past. I of course have no idea if this is accurate, but I must admit that this was my visceral response to reading this (and subsequently, feeling badly for her, if this is indeed the case).
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05-21-2012, 07:05 PM
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pillow princess>> waste of femmine energy >> empty w/out passion.
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05-21-2012, 07:16 PM
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I've heard the term used to describe someone who takes but doesn't give, so in that simplistic definition, your ex could fit into that category, rusted.
HOWEVER There is never one set definition of anything when it comes to how we identify. We are far too complex to reduce our experiences, lives and love into a few sentences. |
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Are you stating that the term pillow princess means waste of femmine energy and empty w/out passion? or are you giving stating that this is the negitive image of what people think of when they hear pillow princess? I'm asking for clarification, because I don't want to misunderstand what I'm reading...
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05-21-2012, 07:57 PM
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The post above feels super judgmental and goes against the part of our TOS about Intolerance where we ask people not to shame others about who they are. Everyone on this site gets to individually decide how they like to fuck, who they want to fuck, and why they want to fuck. That means that every single person here is PERFECT exactly the way they are and if that means they want to lay on a pillow and get their moan on until the cows come home, it's OK! It does NOT make people less passionate, less Feminine, or less of ANYTHING simply by fucking differently than you do. It just makes their style of fucking different. Period on that sentence. I want everyone here to be super careful about imposing their idea of what is ok in bed on other people. This is where we repeat my favorite mantra: "Other people's orgasms are none of your business." Thanks, Medusa (lover of pillows, being on top, being on bottom, sideways, hanging from the ceiling, doing in in my socks, doing it in a box, and sundry other ways of fucking)
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