The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

Originally Posted by DELSDAUGHTER

you might look for a product called beano too

I most certainly did look it up from the link Lieslkate posted...Now if only I could find it in the UK, it would make Mrs.Ingress happy
Incubus + Ingress =
I know, I know that was probably t.m.i

Originally Posted by morningstar55

riding in to the Loft........ .. WHHOOAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaa thunder.. heh...

mawning ... Lofter dwellers and peekers
and
NEWBIES!!

i have landed over near Cinncie Ohhiiya last night..
i have yet to look up them mushy pea thingies..... lol
and hey ....... Incubus... a sunday roast....
ya know....... i remember growing up ... from sinc ei could remember and well into my teens and such .. how my mom or/and grandmother.. always always ..... made a special sunday dinner.... envolving a roast of some sort, weather it be beef or pork or just a chicken... and all the fixin's.
now adays we never really do that anymore.....
maybe its something i can bring bk in my household once i get off this truck.
oh and you requested a pic of the truck i drive now???
here ya go.......its a 2000 peter bilt .. i have a full size bed in it a upper bunk i well use for storage, a micro wave , tv, fridge.. and cuboards for more storage. i have made it very comfy in my truck.. i love lots of pillows and have 4 of them in there... lol and well i want more.. LOL .. .



hey there Lieskate... nice to see you here and ruthie..

That's one helluva truck it sounds heeeuge and very comfortable - I have a feeling the life on the open road is wonderful in theory but maybe not so wonderful in reality....am I right?

Have a sunday roast dinner is how I was brought up too morningstar...thankfully that 'tradition' is still alive and well in many households, I often share a sunday roast with my friend who makes one every week for her 4 boys and assorted waifs and strays - I love going there. I hope you do reinstitute the tradition some time, it's a great way to get a family (be that blood or chosen) round a table to share food and be social.

Good evening Lofters ...early evening, fed and watered, now sat with a beer and pondering over something on a site I'm a member of (non US)...I'm incensed that racist language is allowed under the guise of "it's just a joke, I don't really mean it, that's what they call themselves" ...I think if that racist name calling and their repeated justification of it were made here they would be timed out or banned.

............................and breathe!

[Jet]

Hi everyone. flying by, have a good one.

[DELSDAUGHTER]

have a good friday........tgif is all i got to say....

[morningstar55]

Originally Posted by Incubus

I most certainly did look it up from the link Lieslkate posted...Now if only I could find it in the UK, it would make Mrs.Ingress happy
Incubus + Ingress =
I know, I know that was probably t.m.i







That's one helluva truck it sounds heeeuge and very comfortable - I have a feeling the life on the open road is wonderful in theory but maybe not so wonderful in reality....am I right?

Have a sunday roast dinner is how I was brought up too morningstar...thankfully that 'tradition' is still alive and well in many households, I often share a sunday roast with my friend who makes one every week for her 4 boys and assorted waifs and strays - I love going there. I hope you do reinstitute the tradition some time, it's a great way to get a family (be that blood or chosen) round a table to share food and be social.

Good evening Lofters ...early evening, fed and watered, now sat with a beer and pondering over something on a site I'm a member of (non US)...I'm incensed that racist language is allowed under the guise of "it's just a joke, I don't really mean it, that's what they call themselves" ...I think if that racist name calling and their repeated justification of it were made here they would be timed out or banned.

............................and breathe!

morning Lofters

heh..... your right DELS about the road thing... lol
i cant wait to quit.. lol
sometims when im home ....... on a weekend. i'll make a dinner at home and invite ?? or go to my mom's and have some family members there.

hey btw......... did ya'll feel a strong breez come thru here??? hmmmmmm
must be that southern jet stream ........ heh.. wish it would stick around some so all the snow would melt to the north.. lol

now where is that Incubus this morning??

[Sunny]

Morningstar that is one great looking truck. Do you ever come to Jersey?
The South part of jersey did not get hit so hard last night. A few inches but the wind felt like it was going to rip off the roof. I am off today bit have to work tomarrow.
I remember Sunday dinner also. A big roast that was always delicious. I had it over my neighbors because my Mom was not always the best cook. LOL
Hope everyone is having a grrreat day. Sunny

[Sunny]

I forgot to mention those big peas? I have never ever seen peas that big!!!! Sunny

[morningstar55]

Originally Posted by Sunny

I forgot to mention those big peas? I have never ever seen peas that big!!!! Sunny

hey ya there sunny........ got snow?? lol

[ruthie14]

Happy Friday lofters! Hope everyone is having a wonderful day! I am having another upaid day off thanks to the snow and ice. After all these snowdays, my purse is feeling the pinch. lol

Hey Sunny, I live in south Jersey too! Maybe we could meet for lunch or something sometime.

See ya!

Ruthie (wants to be here -------->

[Soft*Silver]

Hi all...wishing everyone a happy friday. I want to know about these peas...what kind are they and where do I get seeds to plant them? they look scrumptious!

[Luckydwg07]

Enjoy the day & the weekend lofters. I myself will be shoveling out for the rest of the day.
hopping to get done...full blown cabin fever. need to go out tonight & see people

[Jet]

I had a great day with my pal, Mel today. She cooked southern gullah for me and it was great. She's born and bred southern from georgia. We killed a bottle of wine eating and talking southern history and politics.
Heading for the mountains tomorrow to pick up her puppy.

[Stoney]

soooo ........

here I am 46, happy as hell to be alive, just startin' to accept the fact that for the first time in my life I HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE FREE AND I just went through menapause ( and I love the feeling)...
then..
there is this young girl, 16 who ran away from home....she was being abused, no one wanted her......she spent Christmas with me and the fam and her mom just signed her off to me....don"t know me from shit, but is like.... here ya go...."you better put her on birth control... shes a little whore"....( um yeah... nice huh) so I became her guardian.

well so now after having an empty nest for like ...." two seconds" Im ... well raisin' another.

Now of course, 16 , you would think might not be too hard.... well the child has been through it, she has been abused for a long long time... she has issues... we get along great though, she loves it here her therapy is going well.

but now...

I dont know why Im tellin ya all this but I need someone my age to feel me....

Child protective services just t took my sons and gf parental rights, and I was made guardian now I also have a 1yr old and a 4 yr old.


Im 46 and I really had some pretty cool plans for my life now that it is the first time in 26 years I didnt have kids!.......

I love my grand children


But.......

FFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!


GODDAMN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!^$#@%%&&^*&(*((*

F*CK F*CK F*CK


( I feel a little better now)


Stoney

[morningstar55]

Originally Posted by Stoney

soooo ........

here I am 46, happy as hell to be alive, just startin' to accept the fact that for the first time in my life I HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE FREE AND I just went through menapause ( and I love the feeling)...
then..
there is this young girl, 16 who ran away from home....she was being abused, no one wanted her......she spent Christmas with me and the fam and her mom just signed her off to me....don"t know me from shit, but is like.... here ya go...."you better put her on birth control... shes a little whore"....( um yeah... nice huh) so I became her guardian.

well so now after having an empty nest for like ...." two seconds" Im ... well raisin' another.

Now of course, 16 , you would think might not be too hard.... well the child has been through it, she has been abused for a long long time... she has issues... we get along great though, she loves it here her therapy is going well.

but now...

I dont know why Im tellin ya all this but I need someone my age to feel me....

Child protective services just t took my sons and gf parental rights, and I was made guardian now I also have a 1yr old and a 4 yr old.


Im 46 and I really had some pretty cool plans for my life now that it is the first time in 26 years I didnt have kids!.......

I love my grand children


But.......

FFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!


GODDAMN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!^$#@%%&&^*&(*((*

F*CK F*CK F*CK


( I feel a little better now)


Stoney

..... yikes...... and good morning to u .. (((((((((((( Stoney)))))))))))and good morning to the Lofters..

wow sounds like you have a full plate there....
where are u ???
hope it all works out....... do you have a MCC church there??? maybe they can help in some ways.

Originally Posted by Stoney

soooo ........

here I am 46, happy as hell to be alive, just startin' to accept the fact that for the first time in my life I HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE FREE AND I just went through menapause ( and I love the feeling)...
then..
there is this young girl, 16 who ran away from home....she was being abused, no one wanted her......she spent Christmas with me and the fam and her mom just signed her off to me....don"t know me from shit, but is like.... here ya go...."you better put her on birth control... shes a little whore"....( um yeah... nice huh) so I became her guardian.

well so now after having an empty nest for like ...." two seconds" Im ... well raisin' another.

Now of course, 16 , you would think might not be too hard.... well the child has been through it, she has been abused for a long long time... she has issues... we get along great though, she loves it here her therapy is going well.

but now...

I dont know why Im tellin ya all this but I need someone my age to feel me....

Child protective services just t took my sons and gf parental rights, and I was made guardian now I also have a 1yr old and a 4 yr old.


Im 46 and I really had some pretty cool plans for my life now that it is the first time in 26 years I didnt have kids!.......

I love my grand children


But.......

FFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!


GODDAMN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!^$#@%%&&^*&(*((*

F*CK F*CK F*CK


( I feel a little better now)


Stoney

So sorry to hear you're having a tough time of it right now Stoney. I have no idea what, if any, words of comfort can be said in such circumstances. Will your son and gf get their parental rights back in the near future?

[DELSDAUGHTER]

Originally Posted by Stoney

soooo ........

here I am 46, happy as hell to be alive, just startin' to accept the fact that for the first time in my life I HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO BE FREE AND I just went through menapause ( and I love the feeling)...
then..
there is this young girl, 16 who ran away from home....she was being abused, no one wanted her......she spent Christmas with me and the fam and her mom just signed her off to me....don"t know me from shit, but is like.... here ya go...."you better put her on birth control... shes a little whore"....( um yeah... nice huh) so I became her guardian.

well so now after having an empty nest for like ...." two seconds" Im ... well raisin' another.

Now of course, 16 , you would think might not be too hard.... well the child has been through it, she has been abused for a long long time... she has issues... we get along great though, she loves it here her therapy is going well.

but now...

I dont know why Im tellin ya all this but I need someone my age to feel me....

Child protective services just t took my sons and gf parental rights, and I was made guardian now I also have a 1yr old and a 4 yr old.


Im 46 and I really had some pretty cool plans for my life now that it is the first time in 26 years I didnt have kids!.......

I love my grand children


But.......

FFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCCKKKKKKKKK!!!!!!!!!!!!


GODDAMN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!^$#@%%&&^*&(*((*

F*CK F*CK F*CK


( I feel a little better now)


Stoney

all i can say is WOW...i know kinda how you feel...i just got an empty nest and the pow......they are both coming back...and to make matters worse i just moved into a one bedroom apt....