Why do I suck at interviews?

[Talon]

Originally Posted by Quintease

I really do suck y'know. I have never got a job from an interview alone. In the interview I get nervous and I talk shit and I just talk and talk and talk...
I'm still upset about the interview I did today that I am utterly CONVINCED I screwed up, despite being referred for it by someone in the organisation.
There was a point, where I was answering a question and I realised I had actually FORGOTTEN the question she had asked me. D'uh.

My hubby has been assuring me that he would rather hire someone who is nervous over someone who is over-confident, but I think he's lying.

I have another interview coming up and it's REALLY IMPORTANT! How do y'all combat your nerves? How do you impress people with your knowledge and wit???

First off, you're being pretty hard on yourself. Interveiws are tough, and nerve-wrecking for most people...I think the key is not buying into those feelings...and not entertaining them, either. For me it's all in the mind, even if you don't feel it, begin to train your mind in the opposite way that you are feeling. Corny, I know, but feelings aren't facts.
Ex: positive thinking about upcoming interveiw: "I am qualified for this position." (and ask/answer yourself why).
Training your mind to view nerve-inducing situations (like an interveiw) in a realistic light, can also help immensely.
Research the company you are interveiwing for. What about this particular company, actually makes you want to work for them? Go in prepared, it will help you to feel more confident.
Don't be afraid to pause before you answer questions, you don't have to fill in the occasional lulls with speaking.
Wear an outfit that you feel you look great in...Give yourself a manicure and maybe get your hair done, (a blow out, a trim.) nothing drastic or severe.
Practice the interveiw w/ a good friend or partner who is successful/experienced with the interveiwing process.
Give good eye contact when listening and answering.
Firm handshake w/eye contact/smile when introductions come about.
Firm handshake/eye contact/thank you/smile when you depart.

Just my hope it helps.