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06-26-2012, 01:18 PM
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Like Sachita said I've learned a lot and know more about what I don't want.
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06-26-2012, 02:08 PM
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Peeking around the corner... 
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I have learned NOT to trust the words I Love You. Don't SAY it, SHOW me.
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06-26-2012, 03:11 PM
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theres the upside of all this as well, u learn form what u liked and still do , u now know urself..better
 ~~ the great memories that u want and should hold on too !~~ funny thing about life ~ it;s for living ~~
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06-26-2012, 03:26 PM
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In Loving Memory and Many Thanks
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when its over, its over move on
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06-27-2012, 08:19 PM
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06-27-2012, 08:55 PM
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Might sound silly but my past relationships taught me how to love; both myself and another. Deep thoughts for a girl under the covers with her kindle
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06-27-2012, 09:05 PM
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☆ the stars are aligned ☆
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Despite how miserable we were together, we each deserve our own happiness.
Just because someone treated you one way, whether good or bad, does not mean the next person will, so do not hold them to standards they don't know exist, and don't blame them for someone else's faults. I learned erasing handles and making a new e-mail and a new handle help put a lot of the past behind you, instead of constantly being bombarded with it - especially helpful if you hold grudges/were very invested, and have trouble being civil to them LOL |
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06-27-2012, 10:12 PM
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*You can learn a lot about your love interest in the first hour of the first date. If you're out for a meal, pay attention to how they treat the waitstaff.
*Don't shackle yourself to someone who doesn't make you laugh, and definitely, 100% not with anyone who makes you cry. *If it feels wrong, it is wrong. Don't make excuses or second-guess yourself. *You attract what you think you deserve, even unconsciously. The healthier you are, the better partner you will be, and you will attract healthier people. *Accept the other person as they are that very moment. They're going to change over a years-long relationship, sure, but not on your schedule and not always the changes you want. *Don't get into a relationship for the wrong reasons (which is just about everything except that you are full of love and health and want to share that with a special person). That includes pressure, horniness, guilt, or even boredom with your life. BTDT, all of them. *A relationship doesn't always end because the love ends. Love can't fix everything.
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08-28-2012, 11:20 PM
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It took me until (checking my watch)...right NOW to fully understand this. I have loved with all my heart several times in my life before finding Arcstriker...and it wasn't until I was fully okay with my whole life that I realized that I chose those that I loved because they had extraordinary qualities that meant something both deep and rich to my soul and being. In the end, true happiness for me has meant accepting that though love may have died it didn't minimize its pure existence in my life in some suspended place of animation. In the final analysis, as I look back on every person I ever proclaimed love for, I wish them all the best, and I wish them all as much peace and happiness as I have found. |
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10-08-2012, 07:31 AM
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Some important things I've learned:
Once a liar, always a liar. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Second chances are for the bird. Why mess with broken glass? Don't let past relationships control how you act in future ones. Let go of the past. Otherwise, it can choke you. Let go of the bitterness. Simply move on. Don't say "well so n so did it this way". Never let someone walk all over you. If there is nothing good about a single ex... know the same will hold true for you. Watch out for explosive tempers. Being on "T" isn't an excuse. Mental/emotional/verbal abuse is just as painful as physical. If they hit you once, they WILL hit you again (and I'm not talking BDSM wise). Don't become something you aren't. |
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